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Back in the day when people were taught coping skills instead of having been convinced of their own victimhood, schoolboys weren’t shooting up schools…
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You aren’t talking about the 1950’s, are you? Just from a look on Wikipedia:
July 22, 1950 New York City, New York, A 16-year-old boy was shot in the wrist and abdomen at the Public School 141 dance during an argument with a former classmate.[108]
January 24, 1951 Alton, Illinois, 61-year-old Henry Suhre, quartermaster at Western Military Academy, was killed in the cadet store on campus.[109]
March 12, 1951 Union Mills, North Carolina, Professor W.E. Sweatt, superintendent and teacher at the Alexander School, was killed by students, 16-year-old Billy Ray Powell, and 19-year-old Hugh Justice, whom he had reprimanded.[110]
June 4, 1951 New York City, New York, Carl Arch, a 50-year-old intruder to a girl’s gym class, was killed by a police officer at Manhattan’s Central Commercial High School.[111]
November 27, 1951 St. Louis, Missouri, 15-year-old student, David Brooks, was fatally shot as fellow pupils looked on. Two former students were sought by police.[112]
April 9, 1952 New York City, New York, A 15-year-old boarding school student shot a dean rather than give up his pin-up pictures of girls in bathing suits.[113]
July 14, 1952 New York City, New York, Bayard Peakes walked into the offices of the American Physical Society (APS) at Columbia University, where he killed secretary Eileen Fahey. Peakes was reportedly upset that the APS had rejected a paper of his.[114]
October 2, 1953 Chicago, Illinois, 14-year-old Bernice Turner, killed 14-year-old Pasquale Coletta inside the science classroom at Kelly High School. The shooting was later ruled to be accidental.[115]
March 31, 1954 Newton, Massachusetts, 14-year-old John Frankenberger, was accidentally killed in a classroom at Day Junior High School when a pistol being held by a classmate discharged.[116]
May 15, 1954 Chapel Hill, North Carolina, Putnam Davis Jr. was killed during a fraternity house carnival at the Phi Delta Theta house at the University of North Carolina. William Joyner and Allen Long were wounded during the exchange of gunfire in their room. The incident followed an all-night beer party. Long told police that, while the three were drinking beer at 7 a.m., Davis pulled out a gun and started shooting.[117]
January 11, 1955 Swarthmore, Pennsylvania, After some of his dormmates urinated on his mattress during hazing, Robert B. Bechtel, a 22-year-old student proctor at Swarthmore College, returned to his third floor Wharton Hall dorm with a shotgun and killed fellow student, 19-year-old Francis Holmes Strozier.[118] Betchtel was acquitted of murder by reason of insanity and spent five years in a psychiatric hospital.[119]
May 4, 1956 Seat Pleasant, Maryland, 15-year-old student, Billy Ray Prevatte, fatally shot 32-year-old teacher, Frazer Cameron, and injured 25-year-old athletic coach, Francis Daniel Wagner, and 31-year-old teacher, Robert Hicks, at Maryland Park Junior High School. He just left, after growing tired of waiting outside the principal’s office awaiting a reprimand for failing to turn in a written physical education assignment, and returned with a rifle.[120]
October 20, 1956 New York City, New York, A Booker T. Washington Junior High School student was wounded in the forearm by another student armed with a home-made weapon.[121]
October 2, 1957 New York City, New York, A 16-year-old student was shot in the leg by a 15-year-old classmate at a city high school.[122]
March 4, 1958 New York City, New York, A 17-year-old student shot a boy in the Manual Training High School.[123]
May 1, 1958 Massapequa, New York, A 15-year-old Massapequa High School freshman was killed by a classmate in a washroom.[124]
September 24, 1959 New York City, New York, Twenty-seven men and boys and an arsenal were seized in the Bronx as the police headed off a gang war resulting from the fatal shooting of a teenager at Morris High School.[125]
Now, to save you the gotcha moment, one of those appears to be a “good guy with a gun” situation where the police shot an intruder. But accidental shootings, rage killings, and irrational teenagers with violent tendencies have been a fact of life for generations.
I think you are projecting idyllic memories of childhood - where we are all naïve about our surroundings - with the actual facts regarding quality of life. I mean, If I told you that the 80’s were the best time to grow up because I could ride my bike to school, and TV was kid-friendly, you’d rightfully laugh me off the page.
It seems to me that one who would adopt the mantra that people should learn to cope would be accepting of people expressing their individuality; after all, it’s up to each of us to “cope” with the differences we are seeing. Not everyone will be like me - and for me to be fine with that is the ultimate form of dealing with the harsh and cold reality of life.