Don't be proud of being a fucking bitch

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
I kinda resent the folks though that say I’m not off of the drugs. That was a horrid situation and my life fell apart at the time with a nervous breakdown. I’m clean, and I mean it.
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Well, that’s what happens when you’re a morally vacant, self-serving pathological liar. No one believes you. Gee, how could one ever avoid such a dreadful fate? How?

[QUOTE=athelas]
Clever, you see? She wanted to slip off while leaving the RSS moniker on her previous posts, leaving us none the wiser.

Yes, we’re the “nasty people.”
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“I don’t want people to be able to look up my past posts so they can throw my habitual deceitfulness and various other despicable behaviors in my face! It’s MEAN!”

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Do you people think I’m so stupid to think that your seeing the name change IN THE FUCKING THREAD is trying to hide something? Get your heads out of your asses.

You can bet dollars to donuts that I’m going to every fucking site and removing any info I’ve placed there. You people have no business threatening me like that. I hope that anyone who has done so here gets a serious slap or a suspension.

I’m going to say this once and only once - I’m going to see my doctor and talk about my situation, feelings and behavior. Perhaps I can be helped, I want that. I also stated that I’m not going to see loverboy until I get my head straight. OK??!!

I also promise that I’m not sharing any more stuff like this ever again. If you want to continue with the lambasting, that’s fine, I won’t request the closure of this thread. I’m actually learning from the posts here, and for that, I thank you all. 'Cept the repeatedly nasty ones that didnt see my post saying I’d stop.

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I didn’t mean until wrong word. I meant at all.

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[QUOTE=MsRobyn]
Yeah, and I wonder if she realizes that you can still search on her old name and come up with posts she’s either been referenced in or has been quoted in. So a name change is a 50% solution.

Robin
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And of course it’s trivial to find some text under her old name, scroll back a screen or two, and find the original post with that text in it under her new name, rendering the deceit absolutely useless.

[Bugs Bunny]Whadda maroon![/bb]

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
By anonymous people on a message board I’ve frequented for more than five years? Absolutely. Now, if someone IRL happened upon this and decided to do so, that’s their prerogative, but people I don’t even know have no business threatening me like that.
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RSSchen/MizGrand (for archival purposes only!), I have no interest or intention of “outing you” but feel compelled to re-state what has yet to become a blinding flash of the obvious: Whatever happens as a result of this thread is from your actions, your desire to share the details, your past history of posting and sharing details, and the sum total of your narcissism, egocentrism, and utter cluelessness during this entire period of time.

This is “real life” because you chose to make it so… this is a digital and virtual world, and you are in the spot light because you screamed “hey, what about me, look here, read this, tell me what you think” over and over and over. People reading what you call an anonymous message board have every right to do whatever they like because you chose to invite them into your life past present and future.

This is not neighborhood street sports, there are no do-overs or time-outs…

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[QUOTE=Malacandra]
And of course it’s trivial to find some text under her old name, scroll back a screen or two, and find the original post with that text in it under her new name, rendering the deceit absolutely useless.

[Bugs Bunny]Whadda maroon![/bb]
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Don’t you have anything better to do? ANYTHING? Really, l don’t care if you can reference me or old posts, I’m just trying to protect myself from any overzealous sleuth with too much time on their hands.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
Don’t you have anything better to do? ANYTHING? Really, l don’t care if you can reference me or old posts, I’m just trying to protect myself from any overzealous sleuth with too much time on their hands.
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Do? I do have some time in my hands (comes from not having a lunchtime appointment to get myself blown by some psycho hosebeast, I guess) but I’m not interested in stalking, only mocking. And your attempt to protect yourself from overzealous sleuths is so feeble it deserves mocking. That’s all.

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It’s far too late for that. The second you posted anything about yourself on the Internet, it was too late.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
Don’t you have anything better to do? ANYTHING? Really, l don’t care if you can reference me or old posts, I’m just trying to protect myself from any overzealous sleuth with too much time on their hands.
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Please remember that anyone with an internet hookup could be a “sleuth.” That’s not just SDMB members. It’s–everyone.

You’re apparently the one with too much time on your hands.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
Is that even allowed or acceptable here? I think those threatening to meddle in my private life and throwing that intent in my face should be moderated.
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I’m pretty sure the message that everybody is trying to convey here is: Things you post on a *public * messageboard aren’t private, fuckwit.

And I’m pretty sure I said I wasn’t threatening you. Oh yeah, wait . . .

[QUOTE=Gfactor]
I would never hunt through previous posts or try to get personal information in any way–even in a totally easy and legal manner. Nor do I have your husband’s contact information. Even if I had access to Cecil’s magic rolodex, I’d be legally and ethically bound not to use that information. So it’s not a threat.
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Did you notice how my story stayed the same? Despite the passage of time and posts? Fuckwit.

Yes. I mean I can only speak for myself, but the consensus around the campfire appears to be that you’re amply dumb, deluded, or mentally ill enough to convince yourself of that.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
Don’t you have anything better to do? ANYTHING? Really, l don’t care if you can reference me or old posts, I’m just trying to protect myself from any overzealous sleuth with too much time on their hands.
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You post on a message board with several thousand active users and it doesn’t occur to you that maybe one of them would have enough time on her hands to do some net sleuthing? And your husband’s the dumb one? Jesus.

I thought discretion was the first rule of having an affair.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
I also think that anyone even toying with the idea of printing this out and mailing it to my husband (and joyfully doing so) should be smacked with the wet noodle.
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What about sending the letter to Jerry Springer? His producers would love you.

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[QUOTE=Larry Borgia]
You post on a message board with several thousand active users and it doesn’t occur to you that maybe one of them would have enough time on her hands to do some net sleuthing? And your husband’s the dumb one? Jesus.

I thought discretion was the first rule of having an affair.
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Don’t tell me you’ve joined the “Malacandra is a chick!” club. :smack:

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[QUOTE=Malacandra]
Don’t tell me you’ve joined the “Malacandra is a chick!” club. :smack:
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No, I know you’re a dude. I was referring to Equipoise.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
I’m going to say this once and only once - I’m going to see my doctor and talk about my situation, feelings and behavior. Perhaps I can be helped, I want that. I also stated that I’m not going to see loverboy until I get my head straight. OK??!!
I also promise that I’m not sharing any more stuff like this ever again. If you want to continue with the lambasting, that’s fine, I won’t request the closure of this thread. I’m actually learning from the posts here, and for that, I thank you all. 'Cept the repeatedly nasty ones that didnt see my post saying I’d stop.
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Did you people not read this part??? I’m humbly chastised and am going to seek help. I also said I’m not seeing the man again. Don’t you see, I’ve at least learned something. And I thanked you for it.

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Deleted double post.

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
Don’t you have anything better to do? ANYTHING? Really, l don’t care if you can reference me or old posts, I’m just trying to protect myself from any overzealous sleuth with too much time on their hands.
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No, you’re not, actually.

What you’re trying to do is make yourself a victim of the conspiracy of the “mean people” on the Dope here who failed to immediately offer you tea and cookies about your tragic marital issues.

You are the one who chose to spew your poor lifestyle decision making skills in great detail on a forum any reasonable person would realize was a) fanatic about fact-checking and information location, b) where you had revealed an extraordinary amount of personal information, and c) intolerant of prevarication.

You are the one who made it childishly easy for people to find the “real you”. Now it isn’t going the way you were hoping it would so you’re hoping to make yourself a victim of this whole situation in the hopes that that’ll get you the sympathy you do blatantly crave.

It won’t.

Ya done fucked up. Nobody here has any real sympathy for you. What little sympathy you had at one point you’ve managed to systematically erode, denigrate and alienate.

I would hope that my fellow Dopers wouldn’t actually go so far as to print off and mail a copy of this thread (and it’s compatriot that got this party started), but if they do you have only one person to blame - yourself. I’m choosing to believe that the posters who have been demonstrating how easy it would be for someone you know to connect you to your own words were doing just that - demonstrating.

For reasons I don’t understand, it’s been perfectly clear that you’re deliberately choosing to believe that nothing you say on teh Interwebs can possibly be connected to you outside teh Interwebs. That’s mind-numbingly stupid on more levels than I can possibly explain. Given the forum you chose for your little exercise in self-destruction, I don’t even believe you didn’t know it. I think (as other posters before me have said more eloquently) that you want to be caught. So your above encaptioned protest about protecting poor little you from the nasty cyberstalkers of the Dope strikes me as more than a tad disingenuous. In simple terms, talk to the fucking hand.

You’re not a victim, here, chickie. I’ll give you massively deluded, foolish, stupid, improvident, or willfully ignorant, but “victim” just doesn’t fit. Time to suck it up and face the music.

You made your bed, now lie in it.

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[QUOTE=Malacandra]
Don’t tell me you’ve joined the “Malacandra is a chick!” club. :smack:
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If only. You could give MizGrand a run for her money sucking off cops. :stuck_out_tongue:

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[QUOTE=MizGrand]
Did you people not read this part??? I’m humbly chastised and am going to seek help. I also said I’m not seeing the man again. Don’t you see, I’ve at least learned something. And I thanked you for it.
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I see you still trying to escape the consequences of your past poor behavior and heinous life choices. That’s what I see.

Other people’s milage might vary, though.

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[QUOTE=Larry Borgia]
No, I know you’re a dude. I was referring to Equipoise.
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Phew. :stuck_out_tongue: