Granted the behavior is appalling, but to me that doesn’t justify the wish that she have her kids taken away and never ever see them again. That sort of outcome seems a bit draconian for the offense. Once she gets burned by her current behavior, I expect her outlook will change.
[head-spinning hijack] I just got the strangest urge to write a Doper ABC book. A is for Altruism! B is for Ballistic! C is for Cuntwaffle! [/h-s h]
Do it!
My parents, happily married for 55 years, might disagree. But then, they always gave me the following advice: “Don’t marry until you’re sure you can fulfill the terms of the contract.” I finally married at 34 (after having lived with my SO for a few years.)
And this is the scummy part for me: I’ll bet dollars to doughnuts that she wouldn’t dare tell her husband because 1) she knows it would devastate him, and 2) she would be jealous if he were free to go out and get himself some mind-blowing, toe-curling sex from someone other than her.
I wouldn’t know how to diagnose a personality disorder, and while she may not be a Narcissist, she’s certainly a narcissist, because it’s quite obvious that “It’s all about meeeeee! My needs! My sex! I don’t care that the truth will eventually out, because I think I’m so much brighter than my poor, unsexy husband, and I practically have to wipe his ass. I broke the biggest promise I ever made to him, and I don’t care, because he doesn’t matter, and he doesn’t figure in to my happiness at all, because it’s all about meeeeeeee!”
Yeah. Bitch.
If I was having a super secret affair my first instinct would not be to set up a MySpace page about it. But then, you know, I’m not extra-specially quick or clever.
I’ll bet a nickel she tells a friend before the week’s over.
yea, not much to like there - SAHM who’s cheating on hubby, planning to continue to do so until it’s really quite convenient for her to leave him, doesn’t believe that she’s hurting her hubby, or her kids, and brags about how fucking bright she is, all the while believing that no one will find out about her affair 'cause she’s so fucking carefull that she’s posting about it on the internet in multiple places. Better notify the Nobel Authorities, we have ourselves a winner!
Now, since she’s a SAHM, hubby works (apparently during the day), I’m guessing that they get together during the day while kids are at school. have we figured out a plan for spring break, summer break? “oh, kids, yea, go play over there for, um, a couple of hours” and when does the other guy work? It is clear to me, though, that he doesn’t spend even most of his “non work” hours w/her. Why on earth does she believe he’s being exclusive to her?
Oh, and a word of advice from one of my best friends seems appropriate:
“There’s no such thing as sex without consequences.”
She was not married.
I believe Guin is referring to the wife of the male doper.
edited to add: and the “I hope her husband is also having an affair” thing, I believe is referreing to the OP of the current IMHO thread. All these pronouns!
I’m baffled, as well, that she doesn’t seem to realize that “I’m really going to divorce her and marry you” is the single oldest cheater line ever created.
close, but no cigar (heh) “I love you” is number one, I believe, followed closely by the one you mention.
Well, duh. If you were, you’d be having an affair. And covering it up by jumping up and down like a 14-year-old at her first boy band concert. Since you clearly are not, we must duly impinge upon your intelligence. Heck, you probably can’t even check the Deleted folder on your e-mail.
Are you taking odds on how long it takes the “other man” to get fed up with skulking about in the background and decide to have a mano a mano chat with the husband? 'Cause that’s always a good show for the entire family. Sometimes the circus even comes to town, complete with flashing lights, loudspeakers, and a clown bus.
I thought it was, “Yeah, I have to work late again. In the office with no phone. Don’t wait up.”
Stranger
No, my money’s on “other man” using her as an inbetween other dates quick fuck. Nothing, and I mean nothing is more convenient for a single guy than a married woman fling - you don’t have to spend $$ on dinner /movie, hotel room, whatever, you meet, have sex, she goes away. No wasted time cuddling, spending the night, you’ve got oodles of time to have real relationships, other flings, etc.
The worst part about this is I guarantee when she suddenly gets found out that she’ll freak out and say it’s “unfair” that anybody would DARE to fuck with HER happiness. She seems unwilling to accept, much less even ACKNOWLEDGE the consequences of her actions.
Fuck, Do people have no honor these days? No respect for truth in relationships. Hell, the ONLY thing I ask for in a relationship is trust. Even if that leads to a break up, the only wrong answer is no answer or a lie. Nut up (ovary up?), maybe not even come clean but fucking TALK like a GROWN UP, about your problems. :mad: :mad:
You’re going to end of imploding in it.
Well, I don’t much care about HER, but I do think that the kids don’t deserve to lose their mother forever.
Even if she’s a selfish cunt.
WhyNot-cuntwaffle? I am soooo stealing that.
Ginger-what wing said. I meant RSSchen’s hubby.
Aeschines, even IF what you say is true, that marriage is unrealistic, don’t you at least think that RSSchen’s husband at least DESERVES to know what’s going on?
Ha!
Where’s the guest of honor in this pitting? Didn’t anyone invite her?
there was a link put in her IMHO thread, but I doubt she’ll show up here. Despite her disclaimer that ‘she can take it as well as dish it out’, she’s not even really replying to anyone in the thread that isn’t saying supportive “you go grl” type of shit.
the one I remember from years and years ago (other than the Stinkypaws - ewww- thing) IIRC, when the affair imploded and she faced the realities that all of us had predicted, she had a tough time of it, and I think stopped posting much after that (or changed her user name). I don’t know have much interaction w/the object of this, so I have no feelings of “oh, no I hope she still posts here after this implodes” nor the alternative “eh, one less idiot”
Hell, she’s not answering the questions of the people critical of her in the polite thread. What makes you think she’s going to acknowledge a pitting?
way to be more succinct than me, jayjay ::shakes fist:: (but I was faster) 