Don't be such a Jerk, Ukulele Ike

If you’re referring to my comment that nothing will fuck-up a kid quicker than fucked up parents, then go back and read the post again, and then note (again) that I made that as a blanket statement…that Disney or The Wiggles or reading Mein Kampf or joining a Fundamentalist sect or whatever ALL pale in comparison in ‘fuckupability’ compared to growing up with screwy parents. It was NOT directed at lee or her partners specifically (and CERTAINLY NOT to their living arrangements), but that their attitudes towards these things could be construed as ‘unusual’.

And re what reprise said, again, it was not said in this thread, but there is something bizarre going on there. Unfortunately, I cannot make further comment on that, because I have no idea what precipitated her outburst which seemed to have no real relevence to what was being discussed at the time.

Now, have you got anything else to whinge about? No?

GOOD…now go back to your room and think about the way YOU have planted the seeds of hatred in this thread.
And no more smilies, because I’m fucking fed up with you grendel.

WTF grendel72? Way back in this very thread, here, I pointed out to KellyM that there was a problem with reprise’s posts.

KellyM seemed to take that on board.

Why can’t you? Why lose it completely over something that may have been just a hack?

How about these “lighthearted jokes”:

from padeye

from Mr. Cynical

more from the ever so charming Mr. Cynical

mswas advises them to be doormats and accept the abuse

Note that this is only counting those assholes who kept on the attack after the matter the thread is ostensibly about was resolved.

So, Padeye accuses them of being ‘uptight’. Mr. Cynical points out that ‘Woman Sperm’ and ‘Sea Monkeys’ are both ‘misleading advertising’…( women don’t make sperm, and Sea ‘Monkeys’ are NOT monkeys), Mr. Cynical again makes the point that women are incapable of producing sperm, but reiterates that he doesn’t care anyway, and mswas points out that tolerance goes both ways.

And this is hateful, how?

Fuck off grendel. You’re not doing anybody (least of all lee and KellyM) any favours by championing the rights of the ‘marginalised’…because by your actions you are making the chasm between people greater. Everything was going along fine until you decided to pipe up.

YOU’RE the only bigot here mate.

I’m not the OP, but I’m going to beg the Mods to lock this thread.

Esprix

No, no, no…don’t lock this thread until I find out why Disney is evil…please?

I’ve been ever so patient. And I don’t wanna have to start another thread to find out. lee?? Are you there?? Puh-leeeeeeze fill me in on the Disney issue.

Pretty please? :slight_smile:

attacking after the matter the thread is about has been resolved is extremely poor manners at the very least. These particular attacks happen to be bigoted attacks.
Kelly is a woman. To continually call her a man is mean spirited.
Tolerating bigots is a sure way to live a very short life as a doormat, but it is terrible advice to give anyone.

Until Kelly undergoes her reassignment, she is technically, legally and BIOLOGICALLY a bloke.

How in the hell would she have been able to ‘father’ a child otherwise grendel??

What the fuck are you on about?

Simple manners: calling someone something they don’t like to be called is fucking rude. how difficult is that to figure out?

Also, to even begin the process indicates that Kelly is emotionally and mentally female. You are obsessing one one tiny element of what makes a person male or female, and being quite a jerk about it.
“You’re a MAN baby!” you think that’s clever? “lighthearted”? It’s incredibly hateful, is what it is.

I assume that Mr. Cuntrag didn’t mind? Or were you being rude?

But the fact is that, at this point, Kelly IS biologically male. She may not like to be ‘called’ that, but unfortunately, that’s the way it IS. If she wasn’t a male, she would not have to undergo gender reassignment surgery would she??

And, just for the record, NOBODY in this thread has gratuitously referred to Kelly as a male…except in reference to her biological ability to impregnate lee.

So, down off yer horse grendel and back to your room again. I swear, you’re going to be bunged into the ‘Remedial’ class at school unless you get your Comprehension 101 skills back up to par.

;j

I was being rude. The situation called for it, he was a complete asshole and attacked them after the supposed reason fot the thread’s existence had been resolved.
It’s a simple question, “who started it?” Who was it that felt the need to bring unrelated matters into the thread as an attack? Who was it that continued to attack after the thread had been resolved? Who was a cuntrag?

Grendel72, we get it, everything is OK, facts don’t matter, people are what they say they are, reality be damned. You’re the ultimate liberal, we all worship you for that, is that good enough?
Sheesh! I’ve been a bastion of accepting what is and recognizing the validity of who people identify as throughout this thread, but you’re just way over the edge, AFAICT simply to prove how open minded you are. WE GET IT, OK?

Why not give it a rest for a while?

Get a fucking clue. She is biologically male, and never claimed otherwise. They had already responded to the few polite queries about lees terminology before the fucking bigots started making their stupid “jokes”.

OK, grendel72. The trainwreck started with reprise’s comments in another thread. That may or may not have actually been reprise. We don’t know yet.

KellyM and lee both reacted to those comments, with provocative return posts.

Who started it? We don’t really know.

Give it up. Wait for more information.

:eek: So KellyM has a “tiny element”? Now who’s bringing private sexual information into the thread?

Luckily for me, I was exposed to everything as a child. I’m not advocating that as a parental ‘OK’, but getting a taste of all that media had to offer allowed me to formulate my /own/ opinions about what I saw, and what I read, and what I heard.

Sure, I was seven the first time I saw a horror movie (The Sentinel), and it scared the piss out of me for months and I wouldn’t walk in front of a certain house in our neighborhood that looked too much like the house in the movie–but I got over it. And watched it again.

My prediction (and I don’t know if anyone has made this yet, as I’ve not read through the entire thread yet) is that the more you fight to keep Disney and products related out of your house, the more your kid will yearn for them.

Kill the mystique. Don’t limit your kid before she’s even out of the womb.

This is exactly correct. I take much but this obsession over maleness is too much. It reminds me of every converstation with a bigot that thought they were clever that I have ever been a part of or witnessed.

bigot:You are a nigger and you are a nigger lover, hahaha
other:How can you even use that word?
bigot:You saying she isn’t a nigger? She looks dark enough for me, or at least for you nigger lover. hahaha
other2:C’mon let’s get out of here.
bigot:Can’t you take a joke nigger? Gee wonder what got their panties in a bunch. Gee, no one can take a little joke.

And now what is left here in this thread is someone screaming appropriately enough BIGOT BRIGADE, a couple bigots still saying she is a nigger, or do you deny that, a few people saying, technically she is black, or do you deny that, and a few others who seem to like to poke around train wrecks. And everyonce in a while a sane, caring person calmly pointing out how nasty everyone else was and asking them to please stop.

Grendel replies -

You are fucking stupid, sweetheart, and I mean that most sincerely.

You really did have to dig hard to pull that one out of your ass, didn’t you. How ever did you ever get that from my statement? Do you understand the meaning of the word “biological”? What about the words “living woman sperm that can impregnate” and why some of us questioned them?

Then how pray tell, did anyone on the board even know about the details? Also, since you’re inventing things, where was it ever claimed that Kelly uses her penis “exclusively”? My boyfriend is a heterosexual man, living as a man, and even he doesn’t use his penis “exclusively”.

Another one that you couldn’t quite comprehend -

mswas says this:

and you pull this from your crusty orifice -

Doormats? Accept abuse? Huh???

Other than pointing out the fact that she is BIOLOGICALLY a male (look the “b” word up in the dictionary) and asking for clarification on the “woman sperm” comment, I fail to see where ANYONE is “continually calling her a man”.

You know snookums, if I were Lee or KellyM, I would kindly insist you shut your flapping piehole. You’re doing them no favors with your melt down.