I will not pursue this dude with vengeance. I will leave it to the law to handle as they see fit. I only reported illegal actions.
My most important point is, wanting to mend a relationship that will be damaged just because I took away someone she loved. Anyone who knows a 16 yr old girl, is that her “feelings” are soooo much more involved. I understand this. I love her more than anything and just want her to be able to grow from this and move on.
I have been totally up front with my daughter about having sex when you are a teen. I, myself, had sex at 15. With another 15 year old. I honestly, don’t get many of you accepting that he is grown…and doing this. The law states that is over 24, you don’t have NO RIGHTS to lay with someone under 18. Why do you think those laws are there? And to the person who stated some states allow consent at 14 or 15…please note that most of those states have years attached to them. Example: 14-so they can’t be with anyone over 17. There is a law clearly to point out those details…for a REASON.
If you don’t like the laws, then work to change them. The fact is, they are there for a reason. I have no “war” against this man with the law. It is what it is. wrong.
My daughter is beautiful inside and out. She is precious and should be honored as that, regardless of what S*** the world comes along with. You can talk all the BS you want. We shall see what happens when a true family is rocked by a pedophile. I am confident in the relationship we have created in our family. but only wanted support as a mom-whose heart was broken.
The more I read these conversations and responses, I am saddened by the acceptance, when I expected people to feel something as just a mom needing support. Thanks, but no thanks…for your opinions.