If you were out at a bar or a party with friends, what would you find more attractive on a guy - a snug t-shirt that shows off a great physique along with smart jeans or chinos, OR an expensive-looking, finely tailored suit that hides the physique but reeks of wealth and success and money? So what is it ladies - what creates a better first impression - money or muscles? Please note we’re talking about the sexual “one-night-stand” type of attraction here, not a perfect partner.
I’d go for the suit. Not because it reeks of money, but because it looks neat and tidy, and I’m all about neatness and tidiness. I don’t care much for big he-man muscles. Actually, I’m kind of scared of them…
That said, the sweet, quirky guy with the great sense of humor trumps Mister Money and Captain Biceps every time.
Well, in the scenario you just mentioned, I’d take the guy in the T-shirt–I hate suits–but if the T-shirt (and/or pants) were TOO tight, I’d think he was probably a big arrogant cheeseball.
As for the Money or Muscles debate in a general sense (which was what I thought when I read the title of the OP), I’d take the money.
I’m not big on muscly men. I like scrawny boys that look like I could whup 'em.
Normally I’d say show me your brains, but if we’re talking about a purely physical relationship, I’ll have to go with the bod (not bodybuilder, jarhead style muscles, though).
Of course, depending on how well-dressed this guy is, I might just assume he’s looking for another guy.
Definitely the guy with the bod - and I’d be more likely to go for him even if it wasn’t just a one-nighter. Expensive suits are actually a turnoff for me, I don’t like people who flaunt their wealth.
Sorry, neither. I’ll take mind over either money or muscles any day.
If I have to pick one of the two, I’ll take the suit on the grounds that someone who is wearing a suit that is really well tailored is likely to have at least some sense of taste and style - but you can, in fact, hire people to do that for you, so it isn’t a sure thing.
I always assume any sleek, built guy in a snug T-shirt is either gay or really really way too full of himself, so I guess I’d go for the guy in the suit. Not b/c of his money…if this were a one-night-stand thing he better not try to pay me…but just b/c, well, I can’t stand a guy in a tight T-shirt. Sorry. This girl just ain’t gonna go there.
And if that’s too literal an interpretation, I’m very sorry. But I’m completely stuck here with this mental pic of the sorry sucker in the tight T-shirt! I’m over him!
I’d choose the man with the better body for a one night stand. Hopefully the man with the sculpted bod is not wearing a tight shirt muscle shirt. They bear an eerie resemblance to baby tees. I do not find men in baby tees attractive and would NEVER sleep with a man wearing one.
