Back in GQ under the “falling in love” thread, Drainbead posted the following:
"I recently broke up with my boyfriend over this [cunnilinguis]. And trust me, I loved him a whole bunch, given that he’s been my best friend for years. But sometimes, love just isn’t enough. We’re back to being just friends now, and that’s cool. I’m glad I tried this out, because I would have hated to always wonder what it would have been like.
But yeah…I need the whole package, and sex, although not the most important part, is
important. If he’s selfish with that aspect, he’s probably selfish with others as well. It’ll just be a matter of time until you find out. Do you really want to spend your whole life giving and giving and never receiving just because you feel safe and protected? You need to be his equal."
Now, it seems to me that if a man were to dump a woman for being “selfish” and not giving him oral sex, there would be a great hue and cry from all her girlfriends over what a terrible, deprived beast he was. Any thoughts?