I’ve read and heard many people asking “what were those people thinking when they brought a homeless person to their home to work on the roof, especially since they have small children at home”.
Let me preface this by saying I still think of Utah as “my” home and I miss it VERY much! I burst into tears the other night when one of the TV anchorwomen from KSL in SLC came on the screen. Watching shots of SLC all day had been hard, but that was the straw that broke my back and the homesickness came flowing out. So, I’m not saying this to badmouth Utah or Utahans as I considered myself one for abt 25 years (and still do since I am not a Californian at heart and have no where else to call home), but more as a way to make it more understandable for ya’ll.
People leave front doors unlocked all the time. They leave cars unlocked… they even leave the keys in the ignition. People go for a walk, alone, late at night without thinking twice about it. And the thing that was most disturbing to me, they leave their children outside playing without supervision.
The mindset in all of Utah, not just the small cities, but Salt Lake City too, is that those things just don’t happen here. They don’t even think about someone breaking into their house, or stealing or car or kidnapping, etc.
Another thing that happens a whole lot in Utah is helping those who are in need of help…so I can clearly see how the Smarts would think hiring a homeless man for some day labor would fit in with helping someone in need of assistance.
As someone who was abused as a child I can guarantee you that if they said anything to her that would even suggest they might hurt her loved ones, she wouldn’t say or do a thing to help herself but rather go along with them to protect her family. One threat is all it takes for you to keep your mouth shut. Afterall, they had already kidnapped her, what was stopping her from believing that they couldn’t and wouldn’t harm another member of her family?
I don’t want to try to guess what might have happened to her. I’m having a hard enough time right now with my little girl being so sick. Some of my experiences as to things that could have happened to her would be to much for me to handle right now. Ric had to go out of town until tomorrow night so I can’t fall apart right now.
I’m just going to rejoice that Elizabeth is home, pray that she’ll be strong enough to overcome the things she has experienced and hope that this expierence will help in getting the nationwide Amber Alert system in place.
There’s my 2 cents…carry on 