So that’s the secret to coaxing out the ever-elusive male orgasm.
responding to tdn
Look, all jokes aside, all my sweeties have been guys like you. You probably did have to distance yourself some. (NO OFFENSE!!) Desperation can be kinda… yucky. But sincerity is very sweet. And at first, I felt bad for AT too. But his whole approach was wrong. Dating is rough, and a lot of women (girls, we know it) are dumb b*tches. So are a lot of guys, but that’s another thread. The thing is, its hard to find anyone decent and cool, let alone someone of the opposite sex that you find attractive! I mean, there’s only one miss elizabeth! Maybe when AT gets a bit older he will reform; I don’t think he’s beyond all hope. But right now he’s a jerk. Maybe he could benefit from instruction though… perhaps you should try and help. 
What, more RAM?
Good grief, are we really shocked that a guy who is uninterested in a committed relationship would prefer to cut through all the bullshit and get right to the fucking?
I feel the same way 99% of the time, and I’ve never felt like that made me a sexist.
This sounds crappy on first read. Another way to put it is “taking women off of the pedestal”. Convincing yourself that you are their “equal”, as opposed to some underling who has to constantly curry favor.
Silly, I meant guys who can build computers can make me cum!
What, more RAM?
It wasn’t just one throw away line. The OPs opening sentence is:
Not “I am awkward around them.” Not “I have a problem talking to women”.
I want to fuck them but don’t want to be around them.
Followed by:
I want to fuck them but don’t want to be around them.
In fact, the entire OP is about how, if he could, he wouldn’t even bother with women but he can’t bring himself to fuck men.
Like I said. He can go fuck himself.
I once built a model helicpoter, with a moving parts, out of popsicle sticks.
Does that count?
I disagree that he’s a jerk. I mean, maybe he is, but what I saw in that thread was that he was frustrated and venting. And he probably deserves to vent.
Honestly, what he needs right now is not a pile-on. That’s just going to make things worse.
It’s been my experience that people in his situation (and this includes women) would rather wallow in self-pity than listen to advice. He’ll ask for help when he decides that he needs help.
OH! That makes all the difference in the world. Because the other way around was just plain silly.
Further, it’s been my experience that guys in this situation need to see their own way out, more often than not.
Tomato, tomahto.
Hey, if she wants to build a computer for me and then sleep with me, I’m cool with that. More RAM!
I was sorta being facetious. But, in a way, maybe he was asking for help. I mean, he did post on a flippin message board, and I don’t think he wanted advice on how to get over his non-attraction to men.
Wait a second!
I’m a lonely man and people love me!
Oh, no they don’t.
Lonely…
so…
lonely
Pretty much … but one can be construed as misogynist, and the other as logical.
Anyone who suggests that dating isn’t a royal pain in the ass obviously hasn’t been dating in a long while.
AT wants NSA sex. Who doesn’t every once and a while?
If she doesn’t want you, I’ll take you.
Ok, maybe I was right in my very first post to Argent Tower’s thread.
pehaps it’s just a very ill-considered tone, rather than an actual dislike of women.
It’s no fun if he doesn’t come and tell us.
At least then we can have a proper pile-on or a nice group hug.
This “I think he meant this”, “No, I think he meant THIS” stuff is crap.
I’m still not sure where he gets this idea that women are hard to talk to. After all, in this place everyone manages to have perfectly sensible, interesting conversations about all sorts of things (for the most part). There are still some posters that people go “you’re a GIRL!!” after having had vague chats with them for years. I’m not buying the idea that the 2 sexes can’t communicate on equal terms about most topics.