Have any of you hear of a case where a dad refuses to believe his child has some of the symptoms within the Austism Spectrum Disorder to twihe point he accuses his ex-wife of “having” a mental illness that causes her to make her child sick…
to use the court as a means of harrassing, controlling, scaring, the mother into submission to his proposal: she is the custodial parent because he was arrested for CDV, broke into her house, and came on church property to show he could still get to her and the legal system can’t stop him if that is what he wants to do.
He wants joint custody instead of being visiting parent. He wants joint custody so he will not have to pay any more child support and he wants the child every other week to be on the same schedule as his 3rd wife’s children are so she can be the parent and he can continue to race and do his own thing with the extra money.
The child actually does have several syndromes confirmed by doctors and specialist. These are genetic and is not something someone can inflict on another. Since the problems were diagnosed and the child’s teachers were able to provide more accurate behaviors, his was diagnosed early enough that OT, Vision, Language, Axiety caused by having these issues were able to start redirecting some of the specialist recommended therapies to the correct therapy to treat the appropriate disorder.
The doctors rallied behind the mother, the mother took a battery of tests which did not show up any indicators of any mental illness, and the child has progress to the point some of the therapies are no longer needed, his IEP has been stopped at school, and his visual therapy’s success is showing up in his comprehension of what he seens and how it relates to what he is doing. An awesome kid, highly intelligent, has many interests which his Mother makes sure he gets involved in, and just passed his blue belt test at karate last night, voted most responsibile in the montessori school and was passed on to 5th grade. He golfs, boats, fishes, plays basketball on Upward Bound team, hunts with his grandparents, and plays chess (self-taught).
Because her ex-husband said she “had” it and has shared that with many people, she has been publically humiliated because people prefer to jump to her guilt because they can’t imagine a mother do something like that…SHE DIDN"T…she is in the medical field in occupational therapy and it is believed that mothers who do this terrible thing to their children are often in the medical field. Even doctors have been charged because they sought answers because they knew by experience something wasn’t right.
Children have been taken from mothers who were wrongfully charged and babies have died after having been taken from their mom…because autopsy has shown their was an underliying illness that the mother sensed but the doctors couldn’t find. Therefore it wasn’t found out until after the baby was in the care of DSS and not getting treatment and died.
Children of a parent who was a victim of Criminal Domestic Violence are made by the courts to visit the abusing parent. If the mother doesn’t make them go, then she is in contempt. The mothers usually live in turmoil over how to protect their children from these abusers who continue to abuse the child…mostly emotional abuse because the abuser knows that is hard to prove.
Any mother, father, caregiver would, I believe, have other mental illnesses that would alert someone of their ability to hurt their child. Yet the court knows the parental abuser of the child is going to emotional abuse the child like they did the mother, and that child is left with no defense. Those are the children, I believe, grow up hating everyone because no one helped them when they needed it, not even their Mom could protect them form abuse…so these kids are potentials for school shootings, mass shootings, suicide, etc.
We better be darn sure a mother or parent is guilty of trying to hurt their child instead of being that child’s champion and life line, before they start accuing her of having a terrible illness such as this.
Are there any cases anyone knows of where the mother was found
innocent, how long jailed, age of child when returned to her?
We should all be furious with anyone that makes a false accusation such as this.
Medicine was not required, only therapy, so the only medicines he needed was for allergies, rescue inhaler, and cream for his skin problem. He was denied his rescue inhaler by his day’s “new squeeze” because he wasn’t bad enough to have to go to the hospital, so it was with-held from him. The little darling recalled what he had learned at asthma camp, laid down, calmed down, and breath in and out calmly and reminded himself not to be afraid.
And what the Dad does during his time is definitely his time and nether schedule anything on the other ones time. What is her business, as the custodial parent, is he taking him out of the state, does the sitter know where the rescue inhaler is because the little darling hasn’t been shown where it is located, and does the caregiver meet the court’s requirements as outlined in the order!