Yes. If my ex died, I would go, & I know vise versa… Matter of fact, he traveled the longest distance to be there for me when my mother passed… I really love my ex, we just weren’t meant to be.
Nope. Not the least bit interested in doing so. Our children would certainly attend, but I would feel not the slightest bit of obligation.
I would not want her showing up at mine either. Knowing her, she’d do it just to appear as if she’s taking the high road. Really it’d just be to publicly wash her karma.
I suspect word of her death would likely not reach me until long after the event, and even if it did, I don’t have any reason to think most of her family would want to invite me.
No, though my mom would probably be OK with it.