I know that normally this sort of thing should go into MPSIMS. However, I feel that this post is neither mundane nor pointless, and so I ask our moderators to please leave it here, if possible.
It was five years ago today (1/25/2000), that I first registered for the SDMB, and I want to thank you all for making the last five years enjoyable.
When I first came here, I was a refugee from Usenet. On some Usenet forums, flame wars are more the norm than the exception. In some of the forums that I was coming from, it was virtually impossible to actually have an informed discussion/debate without at least two personal attacks. It was very frustrating for me.
Then I found you folks. And I’ve got to tell you, once I found you, I was hooked. I couldn’t believe that there was actually a forum out there where one could have a discussion or debate on just about any topic without it turning nasty if the person didn’t disagree with you. And, to boot, you could even have a discussion on things that weren’t so earth-shattering. Where else on the net can one go to argue/debate/discuss Judaism, Pete Rose, abortion, Lost, the British Monarchy, potty-trained elephants and 401(K) plans all in the same place?
And I found that this was a community of people who care for one another. The outpouring of grief when WallyM7 passed away was palpable. I never knew WallyM7 well, so I didn’t have the same feelings that everyone else did; but the fact that here was a group of people that, for the most part, never met each other in real life, but nonetheless had a person who touched thier lives so; that touched me sincerely.
And I found out that it wasn’t a one-time phenomenon. When some people couldn’t afford to continue on the boards when the Chicago Reader felt to need to charge for posting privliges, there were lines of people (so to speak) ready to help out those who couldn’t pay. When a poster stated that he literally had no money and asked what cheap foods could sustain him the longest, members here pulled out their wallets (or Paypal accounts) to send the poster some money so that he could meet his basic expenses.
And I, too, have benefited from the kindness of the people on these boards. Whenever I have a question, from the serious and earth-shattering (to my life) to the downright silly, I know that I can come here and that you kind folks will do your best to give me the best advice that you can.
I have had lots of enjoyment from this community, both in my time spent reading and posting on these boards, to the events that I participate in off the boards with members of this community (such as my Out of the Park Baseball League and my Fantasy Baseball league). I’ve had fun at the KosherDopefests that we’ve had and have enjoyed meeting those of you whom I’ve met. I consider many of you to be my friends, even though we have never met in real life, and look forward to making many, many more friends on these boards.
I have real-life friends and family who don’t understand how a group of (mostly) anonymous people posting on a message board could possibly be interesting, let alone a real part of your life. And I try to explain to them about this community and the people in it. They just don’t get it. Maybe I’m not explaining it well; maybe it just needs to be experienced to be fully appreciated.
I wanted to thank you all for making my posting experience here a pleasureable one. I want to thank you for answering my questions, putting up with my rants (lame as they usually are), being a sounding boards for ideas I may have, participating in games with me and for just being there when I need someone to “talk” to. I just want to thank you all for being there for me when I needed you and being such a wonderfully diverse group of people. In addition, I just want to express a sincere “thank you” to our moderators and administrators, who, for little more than a coffee mug and the opportunity to sit at the Perfect Master’s feet, put up with all of us and make sure that this place stays the wonderful place that it is.
It’s been a blast for the last five years, and I hope it continues to be for many more years to come. Again, thank you all.
Zev Steinhardt