My MIL is 83 and has macular degeneration. When we visited her at Christmas, she told us that she can only see to drive if it’s clear, bright, and sunny out. On a recent afternoon, she was driving home in the rain and couldn’t figure out where her lane was (on a road she’s driven for 13 years) and hit the curb.
Her driver’s license is up for renewal this year, and she failed the DMV vision test. BUT, according to their web site:
She’s got an appointment next week, and I know she’s going to try to persuade him to sign her off. And this terrifies me.
Yes, the loss of independence is difficult and scary. It’s no fun to acknowledge that you’re too old to do things you used to do. It’s not fair that some people have perfect vision into their 90s.
BUT, it’s not just about the individual driver - it’s about everyone on the road. And especially in a city that’s known for its large population of retirees - you’ve got to be alert and able to function in traffic with others of varying reflexes and abilities. You’ve got to be able to SEE!!!
I hate that the DMV offers this option. And I hate that my MIL is being so self-centered about this. I understand why she doesn’t want to lose her license, but she refuses to consider that she may well cause an accident that hurts her, perhaps other occupants of her car, other drivers, pedestrians, bicyclists…
My husband has tried to talk to her, but she’s determined that she won’t lose her license. We can only hope that her doctor does the right thing and refuses to approve her. And it’s not like she’ll be housebound. My FIL can still drive, and one BIL lives with them - he can drive when he’s not working. But she’s so stubborn!
Someone please remind me of this when I should hang up my car keys. And if you drive in Florida, heaven help you.