Okay, whatever I was going to have with the woman mentioned in this thread has come and gone. It’s a bit complicated to explain here; suffice it to say we were never on the same wavelength. We each misinterpreted the other’s intentions constantly, and I always thought she was too passive. (Which some people mentioned in the linked thread as a possible sign of disinterest)
But I am left wondering about one thing. She wouldn’t take any initive sexually, but it’s possible (based on what mutual friends have said) that she’s just scared and unsure of herself in that area. I thought this was unlikely, as she’s 29 years old and from Long Island. But I have to admit, that may have nothing to do with it. A friend of mine who is from Brooklyn said he was pretty naive sexually, even growing up in New York.
So now I’m doing an informal poll: what were the sexual mores of women like where you grew up? I would especially like to hear from New Yorkers-is it possible to grow up in NYC and be sexually inexperienced?