If you expect sex and go to a shower/powder room, or are necking in a car, does your clit become erect? What about nipples? I noticed that sometimes, but not always, nipples remain limp even far in the foreplay, unless stimulated directly by hand. It’s hard for me to draw conclusions about clits because they are quite small in most women, but many ladies become quite wet pretty early, in other words, when the intercourse is not even certain. Does clitoral erection parallel secretions?
Don’t you girls know or you want to keep it secret?
Yes, we do want to keep it a secret.
How old are you?
Why don’t you try out a website on female sexual responce? Or does the net filter block that out for you?
I’m old enough. This BB displayed all kind of topics, I thought this one was OK. The answers should not be different here or on a special female sexual response BB. Actually, all females should be represented here equally, while only females disproportionately interested in sex might be overrepresented there.
It’ll probably be kept a secret. Go to http://www.ask-a-chick.com and post this same question there. I’m sure you’ll get numerous responses, or if you’re lucky, the question will have already been asked and responded to.
http://www.smileandactnice.com
Register, and go to Ho in the Know.
Ain’t it nice to know how chaste this company is! Mind your own clit, so to speak!
My next question will be about bits or pixels, I promise.
wow !! … this is most reserved group I have seen here in a while! … wow …
but I digress …
sadly, peace, I lack a clitoris or I would answer your question … as for my nipples … well … blush
No.
Actually, it is possible that the ladies who are most likely to answer the question are simply more prone (or supine) to post in MPSIMS or IMHO. You might try posting the question, there.
(My suspicion is that there is so much variability in human reactions to stimuli–sexual and non-sexual–that no single answer applies. I have noted that my wife’s physical responses can differ remarkably to identical stimuli from event to event. (No, I will not be more specific.) I would guess that the same is true of most other women.)
I’m not chaste; this is just not the sort of information I want to broadcast to the teeming millions.* I would bet most persons with clitorii won’t answer for the same reason. I have an answer, but why should I tell you? I don’t think I’ve even discussed this with my best girlfriends, actually. One also wonders if you’re actually looking for a serious answer, or if your interests are a little more prurient. (ie: you’re looking for a cheap thrill, ya wierdo.)
*Especially since I’m using my real name. 
Why don’t you spring for a copy of “Human Sexual Response” by Masters and Johnson ($55 from Amazon) or find a copy in you local library. According to “A reader from Northeast USA” who wrote a review for Amazon: “This masterpiece shamelessly delves into the details of the human sexual
response… If you ever really, really wanted to know exactly what was going on during sexual excitement, this is the book for you.”
I think it’s someone just trying to get a thrill.
We’re not prudes…just “mysterious…”
We like to leave some things to the imagination.* This non-answer brought to you today by Tabithina.* 
peace, you’re right that you’re perfectly within your rights to ask this question. On the other hand, however, the ladies here are even more within their rights to choose not to answer. It’s bad form to nag about it.
oh, for God’s sake, I’ll answer the poor boy.
Yes, my nipples get erect, but only after direct stimulation.
yes, my clit gets erect too, but only if I’m reeeally horny (and also after direct stimulation).
There!
First of all, my apologies. That’s it, if I unintentionally offended anyone. Chaste or prurient. Although, I promised to ask only about bits and pixels…
Be as it may… there is no evil purpose, no cheap thrill, just healthy male curiousity… I remember that girls were wetter in my younger days, at least wetter than my wife is now. She used to be wetter, too. I don’t know why she is not as wet now: because she is not 20 anymore or because I don’t excite her as much, or both. I do not know which comes first, erection or wetness(secretions). I know that nipples are erectile sometimes and are limp sometimes. I’m not a passive observer and can’t keep straight face during our sexual sessions. This is perhaps, one of the reasons I posted my question.
I appreciate even the minimal impact, Carina42. You didn’t have to inform us about your unusual name (or age), although I’m sure, it’s only six letters long. In the body, the carina is about two feet away from the clitoris (or the penis; the males also have carinas). I better stop here. But I’m just curious: I’m not “the teeming millions”, tell me about your secrets. Even though I know your real name, we’ll never even meet; if we overwhelm the astronomical chances and meet somehow, we won’t know about it.
I asked my wife (of many years; we’ve been married longer than many of you here lived) this very question more than once. I know for the fact that she gets erections far in advance (she told me so!). I just do not know, how far! She never tells me. When I ask, she jockingly says: “since yesterday”. Needless to say, I can’t check it myself: an erection is visible in naked man. It is not visible in a naked woman, even with her legs spread. So, I can’t say when exactly it starts, and I can’t check her there before certain moment. And casual quick touch is not enough (her clit is of usual size, i.e., not jumbo; neither is my penis, we are average run-of-the-mill folks)*
Yeah, tx for the reference. I’ll check it, although, I’m sure, it’ll have no answer (cf. male erection: we know that it’s a standard response to a sexual situation, but it varies widely. I, at my age, never have it far in advance. Practically, I get it much closer to the actual encounter than my wife does).
Guina, I explained the reason(s); the thrill is not one of them, but if I get it in the process, would you mind? Or should I feel guilty if I get thrilled?
Finally, Cori: I ain’t young anymore, but have no complains about my erections. They do not come anymore as readily as they used to, for my wife at least (I have no experience with other partners). But they come when needed, and rarely they come even when I’m away from my wife, just from thinking about the sex with her. Why are you reluctunt to ‘broadcast this info to teeming millions’ who don’t know you? I sort of understand my wife evasiveness of the subject with me. I, on the other hand, is perfectly OK broadcasting my physiology to you and “teeming millions” here and I’m sure that my wife wouldn’t object. After all, she will have me tonight, all to herself, not “teeming millions”. And she knows about it.
- Cari, I understand yours and other ladies suspitions and overall concerns about my prurience or even lascivious/ness. No, I ain’t indecent, just very curious about something very natural. I like and enjoy computers. I also like and enjoy sex. I wish I could spend as much time doing sex as I spend with my PC. But I’m so decent in fact, that I can only ask my wife so much. Somehow it’s easier to ask these “hard” (pun intended) questions here, of nice, but unfamiliar people like yourself.
No offense taken, peace; as chronos said, you can ask what you want! Just feels a bit weird to me putting that sort of personal info out there. As raunchy as I can get IRL (I work in construction, after all!) -or here- there are lines even I won’t cross.
Think you got some pretty good sources from other posters here, though.
Cara (does anyone call you Cara mia?), I understand. If you use you real (unusual) name here, you do not want your neighbors know about your private physiologic details. Again, my question was born out of curiousity, like many other questions here. So, my suspicion that my wife was not unique in having psychologically based erections, was confirmed. I’m sure that Masrers & Johnson would make my days brighter, by the response here is much faster.
I know that I risk inflaming Manhattan, but I’d like to share one observation here. M. can cut this part out and post it elsewhere, if he wants.
I’m a shy person: I never opened my mouth at any meeting, etc. Yet, here I dare ask “teeming millions” pretty private questions. I ain’t no psychologist, but I think it’s complete anonimity (I wouldn’t disclose anything here even remotely suggesting my identity; although, even giving my real name wouldn’t mean much: there are more Michaels than Carinas, but so what? Unless my first name is Abcde, I’m not alone in this big country. Or in the world, for the moderators, who know my email address) makes this possible.
The Internet/BBs is a new emerging medium. Psychologically, it’s revolutionary and is bigger than all other media combined. Not only it offers new tools for education, learning, etc., it can literally change one’s personality.