OK, a friend of mine has a crush on this guy who teaches her martial arts class. I guess he’s a youngish guy, in his 20s, and she’s a bit older (early thirties). She thinks he’s hot but doesn’t really see him as relationship material, for whatever reason (um, maybe b/c she doesn’t really know him).
Anyway, one of our guy friends told her, on the last day of class, she should just go up to him and tell him she thinks he’s smokin’ and wants to have sweaty, meaningless sex with him. My other female friend and I said, hey, no way that would work. I mean, who would have the stones to ask that? And who would agree to it? So I’ve been taking an informal poll, and every guy I’ve asked has said, IF the woman in question was moderately attractive and IF he had no prior commitments, sure, he’d go for it.
So, guys, imagine you’re single and in your early 20s, and some decent-looking 30ish woman drops said proposition on you. Would you do it? Any women who, in a similar sitution with the genders reversed, would do it? Just curious.