I dunno about thrilled. Up for it, maybe, but I’d like to think the standard for “thrilled” is somewhat higher than “attractive but not interested in you-as-you, merely horny.”
If you’re being offered, for free, something for which many guys might under some circumstances be prepared to pay money and risk arrest, I don’t think “thrilled” is too strong a word.
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- No, but…
- It’s all in the timing
During a night out with friends, a friend-of-a-friend sat down next to me and said “You’re a pretty little thing, aren’t you? Would you like to come home with me?” Now…I very much would have liked to but I’m not alone in this world and have to keep myself safe to fulfill my responsibilities and I’ve never been impulsive but had he not skipped the preliminaries and let me feel safe and get a sense of what kind of man he was other than tall, sexy and hot, I might not have wailed “I caaaaan’t” and bolted for home.
Soon to be a Law-and-Order episode with special guest star, Umma Thurman. 
doink-doink
You misspelled “Schwinnggg!”
Urban Dictionary says it’s from an Ed Gein song.
Personally, I’d go with “Nice shoes, I wonder how they’d look up around my shoulders.”
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Yes
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Yes and No
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Depends on the circumstances, the situation, and the mannerliness (if that is a word) employed. I generally take it as a compliment, as I am not usually in a position where total strangers walk up to me and ask for a fuck. Meaning, if I’m hanging out in a bar it’s because I’m hanging out there with someone else. I don’t usually hang out alone.
I have been emailed or IMd and asked for a fuck, and that’s a totally different matter. I don’t have a profile up on a dating site because I want to sleep with random strangers. That’s totally creepy.
However, getting an email from someone 20 years younger than me saying I’m totally hot is flattering. Doesn’t get a response, but is flattering.
Ed Gein? There’s just no way…
Have you ever been openly propositioned by someone you weren’t dating? No ‘wandering hands’ type subterfuge, but an open 'would you like to have sex?'
Yes. It was a guy I barely knew, a FOAF I was driving home because he was stranded. It went something along the lines of, “Are you single?” “…Yes.” “Well, then you’ll be sleeping in my bed tonight if you’re so inclined.” “Uh, no thanks.”
Did you go for it?
See above.
How do you feel about such propositions in general?
They’re skeevy, gross, degrading, and rather embarassing for the desperate person doing the asking.
Yeah, I know about him. I also know that if you Google “nice shoes wanna fuck lyrics” they all say Ed Gein. I just pass this along, I don’t try to explain it.
Weird. Didn’t know Ed was much of a singer.
Anyway, I always thought that it came from Heathers.
Yes.
Yes and No.
I did it when I was much younger. In my 20s, actually, when my self esteem was at it’s worse. Felt, on some level, that it was all I was good for…
Now if some random stranger came up to me and asked I would probably consider it an insult. In the past I felt that maybe it was all I was good for, now I know I deserve better then to be someone’s… ahhh… well you can fill in the blank.
I have “friends” that generally care about me and hang out with that if it was to happen, I wouldn’t think any less of myself or any less of him because I know there is more emotion involved then a 'fuck and run".
That would be ‘You know, I have a little prepared speech I tell my suitor when he wants more than I’d like to give him. Gee, blank, I had a really nice… [‘Save the speeches for Malcolm X’] You don’t deserve my fucking speech.’
It’s a really creepy song, too…sounds like something he’d write.