It wasn’t just that he admitted to having a bad thought. If he said something like, “I’ve been turned on by prepubescent children and it’s something I’m working on dealing with,” it would be one thing. But it’s the fact that he thought it was funny and that he hangs out with people who think it’s funny to demean women like that. And the fact that he himself still thinks it’s okay to talk about a woman disrespectfully as long as he doesn’t know her father.