Near the end of the semester a few of my friends and i were discussing no strings attached sex. Well one thing led to another and I ended up sleeping with one of my friends a couple times. Actually she was more of an acquaintance. But after a week or so, after finals and whatnot, everybody went to their respective summer destinations. We kept in contact for most of the summer and it hasn’t escalated beyond simple friendship (i think), but from general looks of things we’re probably to have more sex when we both get back to town. The problem is, I get this strange feeling that she might want something more than our current arrangement. On my part, I do not want to pursue full fledged relationship with this woman. Of course I wouldn’t mind continuing to sleep with her, but if I have to commit in order to do so, I’m willing to let that go. I’m just afraid the whole thing will blow up in my face and our mutual friends will have to end up choosing sides and things will just get really ugly.
Ever been in a similar situation? Had friends with benefits that worked out fine for both parties? Or one that ended screwing everything up? Share your stories and offer some advice if you have any. Thanks.