In Germany, girlfriend’s brother fucks you!
I think that pretty much covers it.
All together now, “Shut up BigTard”.
Thank you.
And OP, when I was your age, your situation was one where a bunch of your friends would jump the kid and hurt him just a little. No broken bones, but maybe a busted nose and some bruises. Don’tcha have any buddies??
He means real buddies, not made-up ones.
I get the idea from your posts in both threads. Either work on recognizing reality for what it is or on improving your fiction-writing. Your choice.
By the way, did the drinking and abusive behavior from the drunk brother only start after the brother turned 19?
You only say that because you’re 19. Check back in 20 years and tell us how it turned out.
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A simple “Shut Up, BigTard!” would have sufficed.
She was 16, she wasn’t retarded, and I wasn’t fucking bragging.
Yes-a person who will allow ones self to be bullied to the point of scars; knocked unconscious, and bullied by some drunken family member, and who hasn’t called police has extreme issues. They will not be overcome by your love. Your gf has already showed you that her brother can control her behavior towards you. Did you not gain any actual insight from the facts?
If the people telling you that this relationship is going to lead to nothing but stupid, painful drama are correct, then I’m pretty sure this is the girl for you and you should do everything you can to marry her. That is what you want, right? It’s the only explanation I have for somebody starting a nine page trainwreck of a thread and then six months later starting a new one on the exact same topic.
Oh, this is definitely the answer. Elope, and run off together, then he’ll be your brother too!
Another thing you can do, besides running away.
Ya’ll can take a break from each other. Let her graduate from high school and move out of the house. If her brother is as lazy as you say, it’s unlikely he’ll harm her once she’s out of his presence. Ya’ll can then shack up together and live happily ever after.
Breaking off the relationship may seem like caving into a terrorist’s demands. But what’s the alternative? Watching your girlfriend get more bruised and battered (assuming these allegations are true)? Is your girlfriend’s life less important than your desire to be with her? Apparently, she doesn’t think so. She’s already decided she’d rather not be abused anymore. I think breaking up with you is the most reasonable thing she could do short of her reporting him to the police. If you love her and actually respect her as a mature, logically-thinking human being, you will respect this decision.
Probably why he prefers mentally challenged 16 year olds, you don’t have to worry about this type of thing.
His 48 year old girlfriend also had an abusive brother, but he died of a heart attack.
The actual insight we are sharing is that it most likely will not work. We’ve been there, we’ve seen it. There are some deep pathologies at work here that you are too close to see.
If you want to see if this really will work, get a place of your own and ask her to leave her abusive situation and live with you. If you can’t, that is a big problem. If she won’t, that is a big problem.
Look, I know how blind love can make one but believe me when I say this - this situation will not resolve itself. She’s too young, she’s too controlled. Given that, get out now and cut your losses.
Yes, you should take your own advice.
Um, okay.
Says the guy who is not but is looking for advice?
If I remember right he once said this board was all he had in life and if he stopped posting he might as well kill himself so everyone needs to be nice to each other because it makes him mad when we call each other assholes or something.
As far as I’m concerned you’re all a bunch of assholes.
As to Budget Player Cadet you have two options.
- Go back to retarded girl.
B. Marry current retarded girl.
I suggest B. That will make everything better,
What you have here is a “be a friend or have a friend” situation. She’s 17. She’s told you that her brother beats her to insensibility. Call child services. She may never forgive you. That’s not the point.
And yeah, what monstro said. Let her break up with you. He makes her life hell because you are in the picture. She’s rather not have you than be in that hell. What possible NON-SELFISH reason could you have for even attempting to convince her to stay with you?
That’s right, she told you she was 15, her mother told you she had lied about her age, and after everyone called you a creep, you told us she had lied about being younger than she was, something teenaged girls are always doing.
It’s so weird that no one believes you.
And mothers, when advising that their daughter isn’t ready for a boyfriend yet, are frequently given to point out that the girl is actually older than she claimed to be.
So yeah, the skepticism is confounding.
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