Ok. For the record, I’m not angry about anything that was said and I do realize how stupid it must have seemed of me to say I wanted opinions and then to complain. I apologize.
I do wish to say that I am NOT planning on spending the rest of my life with this girl, nor am I planning on marrying her. I am not PLANNING any of those things right now, it’s kind of like the difference between thinking that a pizza would taste good right now and making one. What I meant to say (which, granted, was different than what I actually asked) was that I FEEL like I could spend the rest of my life with her. I FEEL like I could be content and happy knowing that we’re together.
I realize that I’m young, that I have not experienced a lot of what life has to offer. I realize that I don’t need to be worrying about long term stuff. I’m not worrying about it. I don’t really think about it all that much, just every once in a while. I realize that telling her this probably would not be a good idea.
To ob and everyone else in chat, I’m sorry. I acted like an idiot and even moreso by starting this. I understand your points of view (as much as I can, being this young and all), and I respect your opinions.
If we’d like to keep this thread open for (civilized) discussion, it could be moved to MPSIMS, if not then it can be closed. Maybe it would be a better idea if anyone is interested in discussing it to start a new thread somewhere else though.
[sub]p.s. We’re both committed to wait until marriage to have sex, so that’s not something to worry about.[/sub]