Septima, you haven’t had that baby?!
Nope. Due date today, now. I’ll keep you guys posted :-).
Keep on checking your temperature and so on if it makes you less stressed, but stop it if makes you more stressed. This is a good time for you to have a baby, but it’s not the only right time - you have the option of waiting for a little while even if you want more than one kid. The jury is out on whether stress makes it harder to conceive, but stress does make it harder for you regardless of conception.
Go out and have fun for a few months, have sex a lot - especially when you really want to (if you feel really horny, this may be your body saying “I’m fertile now”) and then if you get pregnant you’ll have the memory of “junior was probably conceived while we were chilled out on the deck looking at the lovely sunset after a lovely day with our friends, and just felt loved up.” I don’t have that sort of memory myself, and nor do lots of other people, but I do think it would be a nice addition.
One of my friends could place exactly when and where his two children were started.
We were trying for our kids, so it’s such a foreign notion that singular events could make things happen. It seems almost inconceivable.
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I see what you did there.