Mr. jar called a stop to the activities when a guy came up to him and said “there’s two dykes making out in the back room for money” and he had to say:
“yes. one of them is my wife.”
A spat in the jar household? You bet.
I am a Grade A bisexual woman…I DO kiss women in public…but do a LOT more in private. However, I must admit when out at a club with some of my friends, we do enjoy putting on a little show. It’s amusing to watch a small crowd of men gather and watch women play together in public…but then I’m also a bit of an exhibitionist.
Re girls who are just doing it for attnetion, there are quite a few that I’ve seen and actually kissed in public…I knew they were doing it to attract men, but fairly often there’s more than just a bit of curiousity on their part…
I’m guessing this is one of those social behaviors where men will not use the same “startegy” to attract wimmins…but I could be wrong.
Guys making out is hot. Way hot.
But they’re not doing it to pick up chicks…right? Or did I miss that memo?
I don’t know. But I’m saying if they DID, I’d be first in line to watch. It’s a turn on…to me.
Once at a party, my ex-girlfriend French-kissed another girl right before my eyes. While this was not such a surprise, as she is bi, I literally almost passed out, having never seen anything like this but in my head.
[sigh] I know of a great many times she has done this and I was never around. 'Tis a sad, sad thing.
Even more sad it the full knowledge that she was far better at picking up chicks than I ever was.
Life is a cruel journey.
Jar, If I said that to Mr. Jar and he replied “That was my wife”, I’d immediately shake his hand, bow, buy a drink, and forever refer to him as “my hero”
Question (mostly for andy):
Is it only wrong if the girls self-identify as straight and are doing it to get guys?
I mean, I was in a bar once, and one of my really good friends (who identified as bi) ended up making out with this other girl (who identified as bi) mostly as a show. I mean, sure, they were enjoying themselves, but they were (in part) doing it to get attention and tease the guys who were watching (who they did not intend to date as a result).
Actually, they are both incredibly attractive, and after doing bodyshots off each other, the entire bar (including people that we didn’t know) stood up and applauded.
Obviously people of good taste.
Umm… LaurAnge, can I come hang out with you?
It was a good night 
I guess so! 
Just want to add my two cents–I had two girl friends in college who did this just to pick up guys. Did not even identify as bisexual, let alone lesbian. But whenever they wanted to pick up a guy, kissing eachother and grinding on the dance floor was a surefire way to get a guy for each of them. Literally never failed. And it was really funny to watch the heads turn, then see guys wander over a little closer until there was a small audience. Then they’d have their pick. Like shootin’ fish in a barrel.
I wanna be shot in a barrel too!
Sounds more like jacklighting deer. Which also works.
My ex (serious) g/f used to do something similar with her best friend…not really making out, but just giving the appearance of being bi.
It was really cool on the dance floor, because other guys thought I was god…Two hot girls pawing each other, and me in the middle.
Ahh, memories…
Yeah, no shit. Why are we assuming that all these women who self-identify as straight are being completely honest? Either with themselves or with the rest of the world?
Very true, I personally never thought about it till the first time I kissed a girl, Oh I was always slightly curious about it (but then at the time I first kissed a girl it was only the second time I’d made out with someone, boy or girl, ever.)
After that experience though I realized that I was curious about more than that. I just haven’t really had the opportunity to try anything more (I can barely pick up guys, still working on the rest)
Really? Where do you file the paperwork for that?