What is it with these girls who get their tits out for a string of coloured beads.
Jeezus
What is it with these girls who get their tits out for a string of coloured beads.
Jeezus
My guess? It’s an excuse for them to do something they want to do anyway. <shrug>
Like much of the current Tramp Culture, I am of two minds on the issue. The first part goes, “Yay you! You’re beautiful and vivacious and be proud of that fine body! Don’t fall victim to the Victorian laden mores of our repressive society that wants to rip away your sexuality and make you into a docile Stepford wife!”
The other part goes, “Damn. She looks like a drunken idiot. She’s very likely to regret that in a few years.”
These are the two parts of my mind that go to war on everything from pornography to tramp stamp tattoos to Bratz dolls, so nevermind me.
I often find myself awake at ungodly hours of the morning and I occasionally watch one of the Girls Gone Wild infomercials. One of the female regulars on the show recently made the comment that she was unable to believe some of the things women would do for a free tee shirt. That sort of sums it up for me. On the other hand, those shows also often make me wish I were still young and able to participate in, or at least be present at, the festivities----some of those young ladies are indeed beautiful and I can’t help thinking they should enjoy it while they can.
WhyNot, I totally get it. On the one hand, I want to tell all those girls “Honey, you are gorgeous and those are NOT always going to look like that. Document that hotness NOW!!!”
On the other hand, perhaps a tasteful nude photo shoot that will only be seen by the people you *want * to see it? As opposed to that guy you’ll have a job interview with in a few years? Or your new boyfriend’s loser uncle? Or any of the million other people that you would never deign to show your tits to if you were sober?
Honestly, why do I post? WhyNot has already said it all! But I have the same two minds warring with each other.
To be clear, the beads thing is for Mardi Gras. For the “Girls Gone Wild” video series I assume they’re paid some pitifully small amount of money.
Have you seen those beads? Some of the are really quite nice. Am I wrong in assuming that college girls have huge collections of beads that they keep, show-off in their dorms, hand down from mother to daughter, etc?
Hey, a Doper moving away from college sent my daughter a boxful of genyouwine Mardis Gras beads for her therapy play. She loves 'em - she’s using them right now to whack a metal safety gate with because they make a wonderful racket. I don’t even make her take her shirt off for 'em!
Oh my, my day has taken a downward turn now that I’ve had my dream of getting WhyNot to show me her breasts in exchange for a string of beads dashed against the rocks of reality.
I’ll admit I never thought too highly of girls who get drunk and make complete idiots of themselves.
That being said; I’m glad they’re around tho’. How boring would the world be with out them?
Actually, I really don’t care about the getting drunk, showing your tits part. What REALLY bothers me is that these girls are doing it in an environment that is so crowded with other drunken dolts (most of them guys) anything could happen. I could easily see these girls getting gang raped or at the very least sexually assaulted.
Then of course these same girls will cry what “victims” they are. Which I guess is true, they are victims, but jeez! They kind of make it hard for you to feel sorry for them.
Has this ever happened during these festivities. If it’s so easy, surely it would have occurred by now (which it may have, I don’t know).
Yes indeed that’s what I should have said, The Mardi Gras thing.
Even so there are still these girls at VIP parties that get up to all sorts of antics(if that’s the right word) when they’ve had a few drinks.
Why do they do it? Shagging blokes, muffing other girls etc. etc.
OK they have fine tits and fine bodies but wtf do they really do it for if not out and out exhibitionism…oh and lust
Just a wildass guess, but perhaps attention?
I used to think the GGW takes were just videos of girls flashing their titties Mardi Gras style (something my 21 year old self doesn’t really have a problem with- like others have said, when again are our tits going to look this fabulous without the help of a surgeon? Of course, if one wants to participate in such activities, they have to suck it up and deal with the consequences) and then one day I grabbed a copy of my boyfriend’s GGW tapes (a gift from his step-dad, he SWEARS!).
I put that tape in and son of a whore at Mardi Gras- it’s PORN. It’s not just girls flashing, it’s honest to goodness girl on girl hot college co ed porn.
Of course, everytime I bring this up to people they always say, “Well, DUH.” Apparently I was the only person in the world who did not know the true secret of GGW.
You forgot rebeliousness, as in “boy, will this piss off daddy!”. Oh, but those motivations ARE there. It’s that the booze suppresses the higher judgement functions (risk/benefit analysis, utility calculation, etc.) that normally stop someone from doing this except in private, or among some Very Close Friends, or only for a Very Big Reward. (Someone sober would realize that you cannot have *“What happens in ____ stays in _____” * if someone is recording it on video) Same thing affects males, except that our gender tends too often to choose life-threatening stunts rather than mere indecent exposure, when in that condition.
Someone who just really has no attention craving/ exhibitionism/ rebellion/ etc. issues is less likely to pul a GGW however much booze you pour into them. Someone who is just naturally highly lustful and has come to terms with it will express her sexuality as she pleases when it suits her, with no need to wait to get drunk and in front of a camera.
DiosaBellissima: GGW** started ** with the Spring Break/Mardi Gras flashers, but they began moving ever pornward since very early on. You were just a bit behind the curve.
Probably. GGW creator Joe Francis has been charged numerous times on various charges from sexual battery of minors to rape. He has spent some time in jail for contempt, and apparently other charges are still pending against him.
I frequent a few image board websites and they are literally choked with pictures of college-age women taking obviously self-shot pictures naked in front of a mirror. The sheer volume of them is staggering. I find it very hard to believe that the majority of these were distributed on the web by disgruntled ex-boyfriends.
My conclusion: A lot of chicks just really want complete strangers to see their boobs.
Where may I find these Wild Girls you speak of? (besides the video store!)
I tend to agree with you here, but WHY do they want to show their boobs off to strangers?
To me, it just looks cheap, shallow and, I’m sorry to say, stupid. Is that how much they value themselves? Is that the picture they want to present of themselves to the world? All for a shiny bauble. Ugh.
No wonder some men don’t respect women.