OK. A bona fide subculture. I can resubscribe with honor.
As for you, Guin, if you stay in the gimlet light of your ‘rents’ basement wrapped in a fleece kitty blanket perched on that faux Aeron, you’re never gonna pop that cherry.
TMYK.
Back the truck up, Martha. Whether you like me, my tone, or anything else about what I say, I don’t have any off-board axe to grind. Any time I’ve come across one of these interventions over the years I’ve given you frank and honest input.
Go ahead and “consider the source”. Take the advice of a teacher who wouldn’t deign to tell someone how to better invest time, or others that use the internet as a crutch, or outright substitute, for social interaction. I’m not your parent, and I don’t feel the least bit responsible for you, but I can sure as hell spare a moment to be honest rather than make feel-good posts that do more harm than good.
And ETF, if disagree with me, work up the courage to include a reason with your pissy little snipe.
Oh give me a break. What the fuck do you know?
I live in my parents’ ATTIC. Jesus! And it’s a woven horse blanket. Get it right, wouldya?
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Waverly for godsakes, that wasn’t directed at you. And again, I’m NOT using the internet as a substitute for social interaction, or a crutch, or anything like that.
Somebody check my math. I figure that if I post once every ten minutes, 24 hours a day seven days a week, with no breaks for bathroom, food, friends, sleep, or anything else, just posting once every ten minutes, it would take me just over six months of constant posting to rack up 26000 posts. That can’t be right, can it?
Just a math issue Guin, I am in no position to judge how others spend their time.
Yup, the math works out. About 180 days at 144 posts per day (six an hour every hour). Marginally under six calendar months.
Sorry for the hijack, but does anyone else find it funny that this thread about someone being a shut-in, spending copious amounts of time on the computer is complemented with Google ads for Dungeons & Dragons? 
Adam
Wow I guess we all see different adds. I see “Learn with the experts” “Missile Defense” “Office Products” “Support the Teams”
Yes, I’m sorry I wasn’t clear. I knew that specific comment was directed at CarnalK, however, this was amidst the “consider the source” comments that were directed at me. You can question CarnalK’s motives, but I essentially said the same thing, and I can assure you I didn’t say it to provide fodder for any off-board discussion.
You do not use the internet as a crutch? You don’t have to tell me, but have you developed RL friends, found a RL outlet for romantic interests, gotten a job worthy of your education, and do you spend more time doing something productive in RL than you do on the internet? Maybe just think about your answers before you make that assertion. I’d give my left nut to be 20-something again. I hate to think you are burning these years in your parents basement/attic/barn/whatnot.
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I don’t know if you were referring to me by that or not, but I’m gonna answer anyway. Who in the hell are you to decide that someone is using the internet as a crutch? Perhaps I should repeat what I said before…I don’t enjoy much social interaction, I never have. When I want it I get it, otherwise I spend a lot of time at home on the computer, reading or whatever. Just because someone is online a lot DOES NOT mean they have a problem.
Perhaps Guin does have other issues (I haven’t read threads about it) and if you feel the need to give advice based on what she has said about herself, fine. But that doesn’t give you any right to dismiss others that spend a lot of time online as using a crutch.
Hmm, I did say hell once but that just doesn’t seem pitty enough. Maybe I should add a bite me you cum guzzling gutter snipe. Or perhaps, go fuck yourself sideways with a rusty pitchfork. Nah, I’m just too nice for all that. 
Mine are for fleece blankets. I can understand how the adds would change based on our location and of course I know why someone would get adds for blankets based on some of the later posts. Why, I wonder, would someone in Southern California get a fleece blanket ad?
This is for SDMB participation. Guin has stated in the past that she participates in a number of other boards. Maybe not anymore, but…
At the same time as I’m on here. Multi-tasking, tab browsing.
As for things going on in my life, I have already stated, yes, there are. If you must know, I have a date this weekend. I haven’t a steady job-I mostly do odd jobs here and there. I go shopping. I read. I volunteer at a local hospital.
Is that good enough for you? Or do I need to put down my tax records so you can decide whether or not I’m productive enough?
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I would never pit Guin, nor would I pile on her for the hell of it (no double entendre intended!) However, when I see what I judge to be a great deal of unhealthy coddling of a girl that really needs to snap out of her funk and live her life, you bet I’m willing to say something. I don’t care if you like it. I’m not saying it for your benefit.
Are you looking for me to give a thumbs up or down on your own habits? Sorry, but I don’t have enough information to do anything more than develop a hunch… and you really don’t want to hear it.
I told you that you don’t have to answer.
Anyway, I’m glad to hear there are things going on.
No, I’m not looking for your approval or rejection. I don’t know you and don’t care what you think. I was just expressing that if you have something to say to her, go for it. Just don’t use broad statements when you don’t have a clue what you’re talking about.
Well, maybe if I answer, people will stop riding my ass about it. And I only said I have things going on about five times. I don’t like going into detail anymore, because then people start saying, “Oh no no, that’s not good enough/right, you need to do this this and this…” I’ve never BEEN one for constant going out and socializing. Even in high school, mostly my friends and I would just go to each other’s houses and hang out and talk. Maybe we’d go shopping, or to see a movie, but that was it. I’m not much of a social butterfly-I prefer just getting together at a nice, quiet place and talking. And I’ve ALWAYS been something of a loner-reading, drawing, sewing, doing my own thing. Less people around to annoy the shit out of me, asking me questions and telling me what to do.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have housework to do. (Yeah, I do housework too!)
I would like to see it too, but I don’t want to publish my e-mail. Is there a tactful way to publish how to find it (via a Google or something)?
If this might violate the rules, please ignore. I am not looking to get anyone in trouble.
Regards,
Shodan
Do what I did click on a certain members profile and go to the homepage.
You can email me, if you can’t find it with SomeOneMusical’s suggestion. I won’t reveal your email address to anyone else. If you’re uberparanoid, just sign up with a throwaway Hotmail address.
Aww, thanks duff! And all this time I thought you were just a big grump who didn’t like anyone.