I’m a girl and this makes me really curious. When I’ve broken up with a guy, in most case I don’t want to see him naked anymore. So I wouldn’t look up or keep a nude picture of an ex-boyfriend. Is that different for guys? Is looking at an ex’ naked pics a “walk down Sweet Memorylane”-thing, or a “revenge where nobody really gets hurt” " or a “rub it in so you won’t be tempted to phone her anymore” kinda thing?
I’m not sure exactly what “rub it in” means in this context 
but now that you mention it, I actually haven’t looked at either in a long time. My last girlfriend really wanted to see the pictures of the one I dated–to size up the competition, I suppose, although she considers herself bisexual so she may have just wanted to see some T&A; I showed them to her since they’ll probably never meet. Other than that, I haven’t looked at them since I got over her. (I dumped her, so that may have something to do with it.)
As for the pictures of my friend, I was somewhat enamored of her at the time, but after a while having the pictures started to creep me out. I haven’t looked at them for five years, and I’m actually not entirely sure I can still find them if I try. I just don’t think of her that way anymore, especially after she declared herself a dyed-in-the-wool lesbian and stole my girlfriend :eek: .
As for why I kept the pics–I guess it just helped make sure I didn’t feel the need to call her anymore. They weren’t that hot compared to my imagination anyway (she was smiling the way you would smile for a picture taken at Disneyland, which is just unsexy by nature). Anyway, she had nude pictures of me too, so it’s also a bit of a self-defense mechanism–if I should stumble upon those pictures of me, I know I can fire back. (Yeah, our relationship ended bitterly; but I would never initiate that kind of revenge.)
Just so you ladies know, the physical image is nice, but rarely as satisfying as the metaphysical image. I have some really good images on psychopolaroid memory from long ago. You are often part of our current fantasies, clearly visualized, and in technicolor without physical trace. The most perfect breasts and juiciest ass I have ever known inspire my art.
Ewwww!! Ass juice!
Even if the relationship doesn’t end, the photos are something you don’t necessarily want around. Eventually you could have kids. They could be looking through the old DVDs. They pop in a DVD into the player and ----- no…
I actually never look at the photo . . . I just like the idea that she can’t stop me from looking if I want since she removed my access to the other nude pics.
Also, although I find my ex to be physically attractive, I only associate her with annoyance, misery, gossip, and idiocy. That sucks all sexual attraction straight out of her as far as I’m concerned. Generally, one of the things I miss the most about an ex is having sex with them, but not the case with this one. Still have no desire for sex with her, just like when we were together (at the end).
Selfish Bastrid! 
To me, the entire thing rests on why y’all broke up.
Was it a mutual decision or an otherwise harmless breakup? Don’t post them.
Did she cheat on you or decieve you in any way? I say mail them to each of her family members or something equally damaging.