My ex girlfriend would get bored and take pictures of her breasts, post them on snapfish.com, and then send me the link (while we were still dating). She had nice breasts. I wasn’t complaining.
After we broke up, she didn’t delete my access privileges until about 6 months later . . . I don’t know if she forgot or just wanted to allow me the opportunity to see what it is I’d be missing. Either way, I only checked to see if they were still there, I never really cared to look at the pictures because 1) I’ve seen her breasts a zillion times, 2) the internet is not short of pictures of impressive breasts, and 3) it was weird because she was my ex-girlfriend.
So last time I was on snapfish, I noticed . . . my access is gone! Not unexpected.
So last week I was going through my box of files/bills/cards (not very organized) and was throwing away cards she had sent me. EUREKA!! I had forgotten about the print of her breasts that she had sent along with a card. She can’t deny me access to that! HA!
I’m keeping the picture out of spite. Who knows, maybe I’ll spread it around on the internet, maybe e-mail it to all of her family members. She was smart in not including her face, but I think she’d be embarrassed by the fact that in the picture, she had cut letters out of her “US Weekly” magazines, ransom-note style, and pasted them on her naked breasts spelling “THE GIRLS” because that is what she called her breasts.
Sorry ex-girlfriend, but I’m keeping this picture of your breasts and you can’t do anything about it. HA!
Yeah, a friend of mine recently had her ex-boyfriend post similar photos online. Sadly in her case her face *was * visible.
Perhaps the experience of trying to console a very upset friend has jaded me, but if you do put those up online somewhere, don’t count on getting any respect from me (at least) in the future. It’s a horrible thing to do to someone.
Well, I guess now all of us women on this board know not to send any naked pics your way. (I’m just teasing ya, of course)
In all seriousness, I can understand to temptation to fantasize about revenge of that sort after a breakup if things ended bitterly. But, in the long run, after the pain fades, I bet you’ll be happier taking the high road instead.
Couldn’t agree more. Your spite is kind of pathetic, Roboto. It’s been six months, you were still checking her boobs on snapfish, and now this? Wow. Get over it.
I’ve had compromising pix of ex’s and I always returned them, or destroyed them.
If you use the pic for some twisted revenge it says a whole lot more about you than it does about her. You need to look in the mirror and see if there’s a man, or a little boy looking back.
I wouldn’t suggest posting the pictures on the Internet, simply because that means you could get into trouble.
But I am sick of people talking down to you because you’re feeling the need for revenge and anger, two perfectly normal emotions. If I’d had a way to exact (non-death) revenge on my ex I would have. Not NOW, of course, but a year after? Probably.
Just let the fact that you have the picture be enough of a revenge - don’t go posting it places. Like I said, that can come back to bite you in the ass. I had a friend in basically the exact same situation as your ex, and she got lawyered up pretty fast when we found nudie pics of her online.
No one is trying to tell the OP not to have emotions. But the way he’s HANDLING his emotions, not so healthy. Still hung up on your ex 6+ months after the breaok up? Get counseling. Write a diary. Talk to friends. Exact revenge? Still checking out her boobs online? Doesn’t that sound like the OP is having some real issues that he needs to GET OVER? Do you think publishing photos that she gave him is the best way for him to do that? I don’t. He’s really showing how much she got to him, how she still gets to him… that continues to give her emotional power over him.
I stand by my post. The OP is coming off as creepy and pathetic, and he’s contemplating doing something quite awful. I hope he doesn’t and he gets a grip on how he’s letting his ex continue to fuck him up.
There seems to be a lot of unprovoked warnings issued towards Mr. OP warning him of what a terrible person he would be if he posted the pictures online. Although I agree that it would be kinda scummy I just wanted to point out that no where did he say he was going to do such a thing. Instead he just shared a story about going through some old stuff and finding a picture of his ex’s breasts; to which I say HUZZAH!
I know it’s no hard thing to find pics of boobs when you have an internet connection, but who wouldn’t be happy finding old personal and erotic memorabilia from a time long gone. They are pictures of her, but the pictures are your’s. Keep them, treasure them, take them out every now and then and do your thing. You’re not hurting anyone.
I have “pictures” of my current gf right now that she wouldn’t like to be shared, also we have broken up and gotten back togetehr a couple times. Never in those breaks have I even imagined leaking those pictures, also I have never given any thought to destroying them. Why should I? They’re fantastic! I’d be crazy to. Also though I have never thought of sharing them with any soul other than myself, never even in our biggest breakup or loneliest moment. Having them all to myself gives them a special quality to me, because no one else has them. Spreading them around would take away some special value to me, whether we’re together or not.
So if me and Miss BBS2000 broke up tomorrow and never saw each other again then I would still hope to have those pictures years from now.
Domo arigato, exy of Roboto.
(also… wasn’t it the ex-gf who was posting the pictures online in the first place???)
I would suggest to you all to not take pictures of yourselves naked at all, if you are unwilling to accept the (perhaps remote) possibility of them being seen by other people, either strangers or family.
I would recommend burning the pictures. You’re obviously still bitter about the relationship, it might help you forget her and move on to better things.
Yeah, at face value what he’s doing sucks. I like to think I would be honoourable about nude photos and return them or whatever, but frankly, the only thing that doesn’t tempt me to take that sort of revenge on my psycho-warfare, knife-wielding, self-harming, screaming banshee, making my life a misery ex-girlfriend is that I don’t have photos like that.
Not saying I’d do it if I did, mind, but it seems these days you are an evil PERVERT/TERRORIST/PEDO/SCUM/ETC if you do certain types of attack or revenge on another human being, but you’re fine if you choose a lesser known one.
Beat on your wife?
SCUMBAG!
MAKE VEXATIOUS ABUSE CLAIM AGAINST HUSBAND?
Poor thing, you must have been pushed…
Anyway, the lady agreed to be photographed nude. She took the risk. Like she didn’t know most relationships don’t last… Right.
(I’m just teasing ya, of course)