No pressure there Twisty. 
I would just say that once a guy reveals that he has dommish tendencies, he has to beat the women off with a stick …
AGAIN
and AGAIN
and AGAIN!!!
::eek::
The pendulum swings. I like to be swept off my feet, I like to do the sweeping, I like a man with vigour, and a man who lets me set the pace. I like a man who challenges me, and who knows how to use sex as a security blanket for me. And who lets me be all that for him, too.
Especially, I like a man who likes me. Biggest turn-on.
Sylvia, how do you call your loverboy? C’mere, loverboy!
My girlfriend and I both enjoy hair-pulling, biting, slapping, spanking, pinching and degrading talk. When we’re making love, those things are the rule rather than the exception.
But then, we’re dirty twisted perverted lesbians. So I guess it just goes to show how aberrant homosexuality really is. 
Oh, I dunno, a little bit of pressure in the right places…
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Ack! Enough! Us single guys can’t take the teasing! Where’s the “hot and bothered” smiley when you need one?
Seriously though, in response to the OP, I also used to have a very soft and fuzzy, romantic idea of what women wanted from sex. With past girlfriends, I always tried to be the sensitive, giving, new age type of lover who’d spend make sure the scented candles were lit and the soft music was playing.
That all changed with my (now ex) fiancee - whoo boy! While she was quite soft spoken and sweet in public, she’d turn into a voracious, lusty wench when we were alone and horny.
She like me to pull on her hair, bite her neck, etc. I never really allowed myself to experience the dominant side of my nature before then, but when she encouraged me to turn into a lust-crazed caveman, I found it suited me just fine!
There was something about being strong, hard, and animalistic, that just turned me on like nothing else had before. I was the very definitely the male of the species and she was very happy to submit! So yes, rough sex is definitely my favourite.
Jeez, when did it get so hot in here? I think I need a cold shower now…
I’ve always had very wild and energetic tendencies as a lover.
I was very excitable, and enjoyed rough play. But I always felt that wasn’t what women wanted, so I tamed it down.
But it always slips out…
So later, I just gave into it. I’m a good person, I’m just very aggressive.
As to whether women like it or not? Some do, and some don’t. If they abhor my peculiar brand of friskiness, then I end up not dating them. I wouldn’t say I’m fetish, just far too aggressive.
And if a woman can’t handle that, best let her be with someone her speed.
What’s everyone’s opinion on zombie sex?
Hey, with a zombie, you know they want you for your b-r-a-a-i-n-s not your body.
Eh, it’s a little smelly, and stuff tends to fall off. Plus the biting. I mean, I’m up for more than a nibble, but the huge chunks of flesh being torn away is a turnoff.
Line of the year. Is there awards I can nominate ya for?
Romance and candlelight isn’t at all incompatible with snarly grabby sexxing.
But I most like it SLOW and shimmery, drawn out leaving you gasping and craving more until you can’t stand it any longer.
^^^^ Yes, this. I’m told that this makes me a “switch”.
My wife likes it hard and fast. The problem is that I don’t. First, it takes a lot more energy on my part and I ain’t getting any younger. Secondly it makes me come a whole lot sooner than I would like.
I thought that was what Round Two was for.
Seriously, sex is like eating in that the appetite can change from filet mignon and baked potato to a greasy hamburger dripping mayonnaise. All but one of few times I’ve gotten dominating, rough, aggressive sex, I was out of my mind with enjoyment. On one occasion, my partner seriously misread me, didn’t listen to me when I said “please stop”, I got really uncomfortable and pushed him off. To avoid such unhappiness, I suggest agreeing on a safety word beforehand, and paying close attention to your partner’s reaction.
I like both. I would be really hard pressed to pick one or the other. Currently I am enjoying the hell out of slow and gentle, with a little suddenly-rough thrown in there every so often.
Generally I don’t prefer that the first or second time I’m with someone be rough or hard. I need to trust the guy first before I can enjoy being manhandled.
At what point does rough sex turn into graping?
Any one else disappointed we didn’t hear how things went with **Tir Tinuviel **?
And yet your typing is impeccable!
If “rough” means violence or pain, no. If it means hard and fast, oh yeah! 
BUT, I also enjoy slow and gentle…they compliment one another very well. Start off slow and gentle then, when I am begging for it, DO ME like a man (meaning like YOU are a man, and I am a woman, just to clarilfy)
But sometimes, keeping it slow and gentle can lead to the most mind-blowing sensations…:eek:
There is a time and a place for both…no pat answer other than the one your lover gives in the moment,