I gave someone an older computer today and hardware that was a huge improvement for them. I was glad to give it to them, since I had no use for it any more. They gave me a plant. I wish they had kept the money since they need it. I guess everyone wants to say thank you with a gift.
I just got a bunch of free poinsettias from my friends at the greenhouse today. They go into the compost heap in a week for them. This was very nice because I couldn’t buy any Christmas plants this year. To many doctor bills right now. I give them an assortment of cookies most years.
I try to help people when I can, because you don’t know when the situation will be reversed. I’ve had to go hungry at times in my life, and won’t let someone else if I can help it.
I haven’t given anyone anything that really cost me much – helped out my daughter’s pregnant friend who didn’t have any maternity clothes – it was just stuff from K-Mart but I think she appreciated it.
I’m always giving stuff away, but it’s just because I’m too lazy to organize a garage sale.
i guess i might be considered a pretty selfish person because of why i do unselfish things: it makes me feel sooo good.
that said, one of my greatest joys is volunteer work. beside the regular stuff like toys for homeless kids & soup kitchen time, i really, really enjoy working w/ habitat for humanity. i’ve worked 3 builds over the past 3 years; & this year my company sponsored a blitz build, where ~350 people completely constructed & landscaped 4 houses in 11 days. it’s always wonderfully rewarding. the new homeowners are so very grateful.
one of the things hab/hum does is try to build community when they put up homes. in talking w/ new homeowners i will often tell them they can show their gratitude best by passing on the generousity to others who are needy. phobia, if you are a bit uncomfortable that you got a gift in return, you might consider giving the plant to a nursing home. and auntie pam, you know those maturnity clothes will continue making the rounds! that’s really a gift that keeps on giving.