Inspired by this thread, have you got things straight for your spouse?
(side note, I had a chance to sit down with my dad for a few min over the weekend and almost asked him his wishes, but it wasn’t really an appropriate time/place)
As we got ready to move things from Old House to New House, I realised that I hold all of the electronic keys to our joint accounts, so I wrote down all my logins and passwords, my multi-tiered system of passwords, and the level of each type of access (bank accounts, Tier 5 passwords, web accounts, Tier 1 passwords) and stuck it all in the safety deposit box (joint).
I’ve expressed my wishes for treatment of the carcass when I’m done with it, but I have my doubts about those wishes being followed. :\ But I don’t have anything left to do with it so I guess I shouldn’t care too much.