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- Being grossly disfigured in an accident
- Losing the love of your life at an early age due to some disease
- Witnessing the love of your life slowly wither away in a hospital bed
- Losing a child
- Being diagnosed with a terminal illness at the prime of your life
- Having a debilitating chronic illness
- etc
I don’t see many people going through these and then thinking “suffering isn’t always so terrible”.
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I’ve known persons who have experienced things on that list and I can’t recall any of them choosing to take a downcast view of life. Off the top of my head, most of the people I 've known who choose to wallow in self-indulgent despair and cynicism have not had lives packed with major tragedies.