Hey, Treviathan–how you doin’ 
Well Scribble, I’ve been reading your sad tale and to be honest, I wish it was worse then my break up with my ex, but it’s not. If you are truely intrested and are one fo those people who feels better about their own pain by knowing someone has gone through much worse I’ll gladly share but I dygress.
I think you were dead on to think he was bullshiting you. As a master BS artist (I deal with alot of elected officals and it rubs off) I have a good nose for it. THis guy wanted to get into your pants, period. Not that there is anything wrong with that, I have had a few pointless sexual relationships (they so rule), the problem is with his lies and deceptions; trying to make you think their was a real relationship in the future and what not. Your insticts to not "put out’ wee good, he’s a frued and a face, and you should tell all his friends that he has a tiny pecker in revenge.
But then again I’m a vindictive SOB, so take it all with a grain of salt and be happy to be rid of the bastard. And since you are on the rebound, would you mind if I gave you my number?