LDG, Why would someone who is supposed to care about you, not go out of his way to make you feel secure? Let alone tell you everything in painstaking detail? And then tells you it was ‘to impress you’?? Puh-leeze. IMHO, how could any guy justify bragging about his sexual exploits to his girl? A normal result would have been for you to have started mentally comparing yourself to all the past women…and secretly wondering…every time.
At the time, he wasn’t thinking with the right head, that’s certain.
That was what I thought after reading your first post.
Upon your second post:
If he was still doing it, or didn’t realize or apologize for how it affected you, I’d say lose the guy. However, it was in the past, and you said it’s over a year ago now and it hasn’t happened since. Respectfully, it sounds to me like you should probably seek some counseling about it. Especially since he has since forsaken those juvenile tendencies. Bottom line, you need to find a way to lose the baggage. Get some help. If you can’t get past it, it’s going to do nothing but poison both you and him slowly.
Good luck,
~eNiGma