My brother-in-law is a dad (two sons) and just got divorced - actually they have been going through the process for almost a year, but just found out that the final settlement involves a transition from joint custody to his ex-wife getting sole custody and her relocating to a different state (From VA outside of D.C. to upstate New York). Getting this involved her doing some exaggerating and presenting mistruths at the final trial - my BiL is now very upset and down, and trying to understand his options - less legally and more about whether he should consider when looking at relocating. He wants to maximize his time with his kids and minimize his economic exposure.
What resources would you recommend - message boards, support groups, info sources, etc? He has little/no experience using this type of online resource. I introduced him to Usenet groups through Google groups this morning and did a Google on “divorced dad message boards” and sent him a bunch of links.
I would appreciate anyone with experienced in this topic to help out with recommendations for their most valued resources.
Thank you.