My sister is married and recently me and my sisters husbands brother have fallen for each other, is that wrong ?
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Moving thread from General Questions to In My Humble Opinion.
Are you both single and above the age of consent? If so, I don’t see a problem.
Was he looking at you with those brother-in-law eyes?
Assuming you’re both single, then why are you worried about this?
But what does that make me? Absolutely nothing?
“Wrong” in what way? Are you both currently unattached or does this involve infidelity? And how in the name of the eighth ray have we become a relationship advice forum?
I don’t think the OP is looking for actual advice. What she needs is “HELP!”.
Someone call 9-1-1 while the rest of us organize a rescue party.
If falling for him is wrong, do you wanna be right?
My brother is married to my wife’s sister. We’ve all been married for over 30 years. Works for us.
Seriously, we’ve done this before. Several folks here are part of 2-brothers-marry-2-sisters couples or know or are related to folks who are.
It *can *work fine. It *can *get messy if somebody gets divorced, or one family is real close knit and the other is more aloof. Lots more opportunities for drama than if you marry somebody unrelated to your sibling’s spouses.
But “opportunities for drama” aren’t the same thing as “guaranteed epic fail”.
Consider a threesome or open marriage
Winner for comedy
Winner for practicality
It’s only probably wrong if your sister and her husband are closely related.
Simplifies family reunions.
Unless you want to keep the crown and/or the moonshine still in the extended family.
Damn! I was going to make a “Spaceballs” joke!
- glowers angrily. :mad:
@ the OP, if you’re both unattached, go for it.
If you are both single adults, no, it is not wrong.
Enjoy!
This is wong, on so many levels.
And Mr. Wong says you should ride that love train until the coal burns out!