La Principessa has decided to celebrate her entry into sixth grade and Middle School by going out for soccer. It took us a while to figure out why, since she’s always been the smallest kid in her class (she’s the small, fiery type), and the biggest physical effort we’ve ever seen her expend so far in her 11 years is climbing down out of her top bunk to get another book off the desk. She’s not a jock, in other words.
But we finally realized that everyone else in her “set” is going out for a sport of some kind, to celebrate their entry into Middle School, and since they’re all taller and stronger than she is, they’re all going out for (a) volleyball, (b) basketball, or © cheerleading. At some very fundamental level she must have realized that in soccer, the race is not always to the “tall”, so off she went yesterday morning for the first before-school practice, and she liked it, and so now she’s got the cleats and the shin guards and I’m a “soccer mom”.
It’s a mixed group of 6th, 7th, and 8th graders, about 25 kids altogether. She and another 6th grade girl named Amanda (they’ve known each other since kindergarten but they aren’t really “friends”) are the only females.
She and Amanda are also the only ones who have never played soccer before. She related with some awe how good the other kids (the boys) were. I told her, “Bonzo wanted to go out for soccer when he got into 6th grade, but all his buddies were also going out for soccer, and they were all a lot better at it than he was, so he was too shy to go, even though we paid for the sports physical and everything. So, good for you–you weren’t too shy to try out.”
Oh, and it wasn’t really a “tryout” as such–the coach is the librarian, a “Mrs. M”, who has been doing it for 20 years now, and she is also not the “jock” type, but definitely the “librarian” type. So it’s going to be a fairly low-key thing, no frenzied parents shouting at the kid who screwed up the place kick.
They’re going to split up into teams and take turns playing the other schools–that’s how laid-back Mrs. M. is. She’s not a trophy-hunter. And she says (I discussed this thoroughly with her, privately, on registration day, while Madame was waiting in line to have her sports physical in the gym), that she never “cuts” people from the team as such, but if it becomes obvious that someone isn’t doing well, or not having a good time–well, she says, it’s just obvious.
So, anybody play soccer in Middle School? Any females? Any hints, for both mom and Madame?