How did you communicate before there was internet?

How did you communicate before there was internet?

I don’t mean with your SO, friends and family. But how did you talk to strangers? What if you needed to get something off your chest? Who[m] did you talk to?

I guess I internalised more often, or perhaps bored more people in bars.

Did we used to socialise more? I can’t remember.

I spent more time in pubs and clubs, or at parties, and I was usually drunk and/or stoned, which makes talking to strangers/philosophising/mouthing off about all kinds of random stuff considerably easier! But I was younger then…

I talked to other kids in the playground :smiley:

Oh, and the number of urban legends I believed. Sheesh.

Bulletin Board Systems filled my need for anonymous electronic communication.

I’m only 22 and have been online since right before I turned 18 so I was still living at home before the 'net. If I needed to talk about something, I either talked to my best friend, my parents, or my aunt, who I consider a second mom. On rare occasions, I sometimes confided in my sister but she’s a gossip and I quickly learned to stop that.

I never kept a journal and didn’t have any friends outside of school or work so I mostly internalized though.

Nowadays, if I have something that’s bothering me, I post it in a filtered livejournal entry.

I didn’t.
Hell, I still don’t.

Letter. Cabe. Telephone. SHOUTING REALLY LOUDLY!

Before internet? What blasphemy is this? There was nothing before the internet!

In all seriousness…I don’t know. I’m still quite young, and internet started becoming common (at least at school) when I hit my teens–when I was the most socially awkward–I had literally no friends–and the most shy. So I didn’t talk to people much. I don’t even have any cousins near my age, the closest who lives nearby is four years older than me.

Actually, I don’t think much has changed since then. Only I actually have a couple RL friends now. But I’m as shy as ever.

Telephone . . . Long letters to friends (I still have half-a-dozen or so regular correspondents) . . . I had a magazine column through much of ther '90s I used to babble and vent . . .

I’ve been online since I was 16… before that, the world didn’t exist outside my circle of friends, and we spoke, like many teenaged girls, on the phone, incessantly.
I never handwrote letters, ever, unless it was a school assignment, since there has always been a computer in the house since I was born. Always. This is probably why my handwriting is so atrocious.

I wrote letters to the editor a lot. Wrote to my congressfools, too. Those who cared to could go to city council meetings and express opinions, and they still do. Some activists would stand on street corners and pass out leaflets. Another way is to talk to a newspaper reporter and persuade him you had something the public should know. That usually didn’t work, but sometimes it would.

What he said.

I asked my parents, who were in their playground years way before the internet. They went to parties, bars, coffee shops more, just hung out around people. In real life, too! I’m amazed…

“Hey, Maw! Git off the dang roof!” {Cletus the slack-jawed yokel}

I used FidoNet.