Will do.
True. Unless you are horribly disfigured, most people should be able to manage around a 6 (5 being nondescript and 6 being around a “hey you look nice today”) simply by wearing a flattering hairstyle, wearing stylish clothes that look put together and standing up straight. And that’s just physical appearance. You can also increase your “hotness” by being pleasent, funny and fun.
fetus, I meant no ill will. I was just saying that in terms of drug stereotypes, I have never encountered the idea that pot makes unattractive women look prettier in the eyes of the affected. This is an extremely common stereotype about alcohol and a huge part of pop culture: “Beer - Helping Ugly People Get Laid.” “She looks better with every beer you drink,” et cetera ad naeuseauem. I have never, ever, ever heard marijuana described in this way. I am genuinely curious as to why you would even think that was a stereotype associated with pot use. Pot is definitely stereotyped as making things weirder, trippier, and bringing on elaborate discussions over seemingly meaningless things. And Hugh Hefner claims that it enhances his sex life. But I’ve never heard anyone say something like, “let me smoke another bowl, then maybe I’ll want to sleep with her.” This has always been alcohol’s territory in the world of stereotypes.
I am NOT trying to condemn or argue with you, I’m motivated only by the curiosity to hear others’ perspectives.
Difficult question. I know that in my pictures 10 years ago, I was at least an 8. As another user said, I had no idea how good I looked then. Now at 36, I’m no better of a judge.
After seven babies (four mine, three surrogate) I’m still a size 4. But if I bend over while naked, I have roughly an acre of excess skin hanging off my belly. It’s gross. The kids are worth it, though. Really.
Probably a 3 or 4. I pay little attention to my appearance, and am otherwise vaguely sleazy looking IMHO. I look in my mirror and say “Would you buy a used car from this man ? Nope. Would you expect him to have a rap sheet ? Yep.” I don’t have a criminal record, but I look like I should.
I could prove it but I’m not clear on how to link to just one photo on snapfish.
You really would like Calgary. People walk around downtown smoking joints if they’re so inclined.
Hey, I’m not here to judge.
Maastricht, that wasn’t Black Canyon of the Gunnison, was it?
(Gee, what a dorky geologist… looks past the purty girl at the dumb ol’ rocks.)
I have this guilty feeling that I’m at least in part responsible for global warming …
Hmm, it’s how hot are you - not what do you look like …
I’m with jsgoddess.
I am not now, nor have I ever been (even at my thinnest) anything over a 4, most usually around a 3. I don’t make small children scream at the sight of me - but neither would I be considered attractive.
My husband disagrees, but he’s merely distracted by my rack (which is impressive).
This doesn’t automatically make me the Queen of Low Self-Esteem. I got over the urge to totally tie up my self-image with my physical appearance some 15 years ago and haven’t looked back since.
I try to keep in shape (although I could do better, I know). I don’t live on fast food or junk food. I do the best I can with my styling choices.
I’m just not hot. Nothing to be done, really. So I got the hell over it. I’m clever, funny, have a wide-ranging span of interests, a hell of a cook, the best friend in the world, an amazing daughter, sister, wife, niece, cousin and aunt, I’m amazing at my work. I have family, friends and husband who love me and who I love. I have hobbies I truly enjoy (and share with those friends, family and husband - to vary degrees depending). I have a good life that I thoroughly enjoy.
Ain’t nothing wrong with my self-esteem. I’m still not hot though
Yeah, I agree. I like myself. I’m a good man and truth be told, I engender some amazing loyalty from people who know me - but I’m not hot. It is an honesty thing as much as anything.
Well, I guess it helps to know that he’s Asian. I thought it was some bizarre genetic fluke.
That said, one of my groups of friends includes an Asian male. He is the hunk of the group. When he is arond the rest of us are more or less chopped liver. He has had to, in the past, literally beat women off with a stick (ok, that’s hyperbole, just, but you get the point). I shall be saddened to have to inform him that all of the women who have thrown themselves at him, mostly non-Asian, are delusional. I’m sure he’ll be crushed.
No need to get snarky. Nobody said that every single Asian male on the planet has trouble attracting non-Asian women. Obviously, when you deal with generalizations, there will be exceptions to those rules.
WOAH!!!
Definitely hot. My pacemaker just opened the garage door.
checks posting history
no pictures? okay!
I’m an 18, easily!
or maybe I’m closer to a 2.3. hot I ain’t. I fall around the “well, you have nice… uh… ears” mark.
OK this thread has inspired a lot more self-confidence since my last post and am upgrading myself to a 7.3.
Thanks guys!
Mrs Geek thinks I’m attractive, but then she does wear pretty thick glasses.
As far as everyone else’s opinion, well, I think I could beat a rotting zombie in a beauty contest, but on the other hand I do regularly scare small children. I think that puts me at about a 1.
Oh, okay. I just wasn’t sure because I hadn’t been on the board for a few weeks, and sometmes a lot can happen in a short span of time…IF ya know what I mean.
I give myself a solid 7…Thankfully my wife gives me a 9 so I think I found the right girl.