Hmm I’d say 6 years and some months. Not by choise entirely
Any single women in the NJ area looking for a 28 year old guy? 
You are absolutely right. Sex is rediculously easy to get. It’s just that I am a former slut(for lack of a better word) and I am attempting to rehabilitate myself. I am trying to build lasting relationships that don’t revolve around sex(a new thing for me). So sue me if that sounds sad or pathetic.
just under 3 months
The longest I’ve gone without sex, I believe, was eighteen and a half years…
Well 12 months and counting. Mind you that included the last six months before I split up with the ex Mrs Kipper.
Can’t see any chance of getting any soon. 
Ah, but the OP didn’t ask how long you have gone without an emotionally fulfilling relationship, it asked how long you have gone without SEX. It is possible to have hot, sloppy, fulfilling sex with a new friend. After all, strangers are just friends you haven’t met yet.
And there should be no pregnancy risk in a one night stand because you should insist on men wearing condoms, every time, no exceptions ever.
And I guess the longest I’ve gone without sex is probably six months or so.
To the contrary, that sounds like a mature, sensible decision. Sex is definitely a lot more fun and meaningful with someone you love, because then there is an entirely extra dimension of emotions that heighten the physical sensations.
But a quick meaningless fuck is fun, too.
I officially apologize on behalf of those of us too unattractive to simply have a stranger hop directly into bed with us at a moment’s notice.
4 months.
And 17 years.
:mad:
(blushing) Seven years, now. Determined to break the dry spell.
Anyone else besides me noticed that on this message, it’s mainly guys who are replying? Does that mean the girls are getting laid more than we are?
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<After more reading of the posts>
Masturbation just doesn’t cut it very well. You miss the physical sensations, like the touch and warmth of skin to skin, the scent of washed hair, the motions of muscles moving under the skin, the weight, and the actual look in and on your partners face. I don’t know, whacking the wiener is fine, but I miss seeing the swell of a beautiful butt, the sensation of soft knockers pressed into my chest and the lingering, drifting scent of perfume or fragrant soap …?!?.. 'scuse me. Gotta go!!
"And the fox said to himself, ‘Well, it doesn’t matter if
I can’t reach those grapes; I don’t want them anyway because they’re probably sour.’
Please, this Manichaean pretense that flesh is evil is silly. Touching another person and making him feel good, if only for a short time, still beats masturbation any day of the week.
One year, just after I finished college, then six months after that. That was about 6 years ago, and I haven’t gone for more than a couple of months since.
Confidence is a wonderful thing.
–sublight.
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There’s no debate here, I don’t understand why you bring it up. As a wise man once said, “DUH!”
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I didn’t get that either. Maybe goboy accidently quoted the wrong poster?
Peace,
mangeorge (Way Too Long!)
<<Anyone else besides me noticed that on this message, it’s mainly guys who are replying? Does that mean the girls are getting laid more than we are?>>
My theory is that women who aren’t getting it, aren’t always counting. I mean, yeah, it’s been since just before last Thanksgiving for me, but until just now I wasn’t aware that that was 8 months and 20 days ago. And yup, that’s my longest dry spell ever.
I haven’t really been counting because I’m really disillusioned with bad sex. It’s not that my standards are terribly high…anyone above the age of consent, young enough NOT to be my father, not crazy or a pathological liar (when you tell me you haven’t had sex with a woman in five years, you’d BETTER mention the 37 guys you’ve had…honesty gets you everywhere with me), and willing to drop the ego with the pants. And you have to be fun to talk to afterwards. Looks…well, I insist on regular bathing, preferably right before any intimate encounters; clean clothes, neat hair, and hey, they also have to be silly enough to think I’m somewhere in their range of “acceptably decent looking” too.
Apparently at this point I’ve ruled out every man within a hundred mile radius of me, or they’re out there, but too shy to talk.
Corr
Hmmm,
Berkeley, CA to Oklahoma City, OK = 1616.8 miles
1616.8 miles - 100 = 1516.8 miles too far.
Dang!
Peace,
mangeorge (Too old, too. Dang!)
I thought two years was honorary virgin status. Maybe that’s just when you’re in your twenties.
My longest stretch was around 2.5 years.
My whole life.
sigh
Depends on whom you ask. If you ask me, I will tell you truthfully that it has been a little over 24 hours. If you ask Mr. Lyllyan, however, he will say 18 years. He graduated from the National College of Exaggeration, summa cum laude (it didn’t mean what he thought it meant).
Ugh! A boyfriend that doesn’t want to have sex?! I can’t imagine!
I’m almost ashamed because I’ll go for just about anyone when it’s been long enough.
Two of my ex-boyfriends decided that I didn’t deserve to go through a dry spell. Maybe you wishing me luck helped out a bit. Ahhh. Sex with two different people two nights in a row. It feels so naughty.