Usually I stay there for 20 minutes. Too little? Too much?
“must”? You say it like it’s a chore or something.
You should do it until you’re told to stop.
It’s one of those “You’ll know when you see it” kind of things.
As long as you can.
Word of advice: You don’t have to push really hard with your tongue, or stick it way far out, or concentrate too much when performing cunnilingus. Just relax into it. It is the long repetition of the same licking motion that drives a woman to (or at least near) orgasm, not a stort-duration pressure on “just the right spot” at “just the right moment”.
Besides, taking it easy while you’re getting your licks in, so to speak, also saves the bottom of your tongue from getting badly scraped by the tops of your lower teeth. Which will also increase how long you can keep up the licking.
Oh, and if she does respond well to small variations in your technique over the course of one licking session, just gently inscribe the letters of the alphabet. I tend to linger on the “I” and the “O” for some reason ;).
End of sermon.
Until she’s happy for you to go on to something else.
Got a foreskin?
No?
Don’t bother.
Hee, Euty.
Good lord, man, you make it sound like you’re entering enemy territory. (Okay, that’s a whole other thread.) I can see it now-
UNIBALL
Mom, Dad, Demi… I have to go now. I’m so sorry.
DODECABALL
Oh, son… good luck.
UNIBALL
Now, you know I might not make it.
DEUXLUMP
Don’t say that! <sob>
UNIBALL
Now, my will is in the Bible. Father O’Ball has given me my last rites, just in case. I’m going.
DEMIBALL
Uni, I’ll play with Saltyball for you.
UNIBALL
Take care, kid.
*with one last tender look at his family, Uniball takes the steps one by one. He knows that upstairs, she is waiting… and she’s expecting him to muff dive.
Fade on tearful family*
Sigh.
As long as she likes, of course. Cunnilingus is a joy.
3 hours, 17 minutes, and 24 seconds.
In all seriousness, I like DeskMonkey’s answer. Or until she begs you to stop because she just can’t take any more orgasms.
Until they send her to the asylum. Oh sorry, wrong thread.
andygirl - FUNNY!
And by the way, how in the world can you know “20 minutes?” Do you have a fricking egg timer by your bed?
ohmorepleasepleaseplease
DING
Sorry, honey. Time’s up!
Good cunnilingus is an art- it should be timeless, vibrant, and inspired by the Dieties of Orgasm.
Ummm…perhaps instead of worrying about how many minutes are “enough”, you and your SO might want to talk about what turns you both on and what makes each of you feel so damn horny and orgasmic that you just can’t help yourselves from doing the “When Harry Met Sally” kind of thing.
It sounds like (no pun intended) you aren’t getting a whole lot of feedback from your SO when you are spending those 20 minutes down there licking. It reads like she isn’t saying to you “harder, softer, left, right, more or less”. Perhaps it just isn’t her thing, or perhaps you are unwittingly making her feel pressured to have an orgasm on demand.
You’ve risked heaps by posting on this board about this issue anyway - can you risk a little more and ask your SO what she would enjoy you doing to her? Because every one of us can tell you what works for us personally, but none of us can really speak on behalf of your SO.
Go to Napster and download John Valby’s “50 Ways to Eat Your Lover”
Bill H. wrote:
You misspelled “alylum.” Hope this helps.
Depends on a lot of things: the mood she’s in, how hot she is, how hot you are, your technique, your enthusiasm level, etc.
I can say from personal experience, after two and a half years with my SO, all of the above makes a BIG difference. If I’m tired or upset, he can be there for more than an hour and all I’ll get is sore. If I’m really ready and randy, it won’t take more than a few minutes, tops.
Best answer: talk it over with your partner, how she likes it, what she likes, what she wants, etc. (And turn about IS fair play.)
I wish I was allowed to practice this art - I used to love to spend literally hours doing it - orgasm after orgasm for her. But unfortunately, I live with someone who hates it. 
Oh shit. TMI again.
I’ve tried to tell Anthracite she can come live with me, but she won’t move.
Uh, Uniball?
You might want to, I dunno, ask your partner.(?!?)
You do know there are plenty of topical chat rooms available, right?
We fight Ignorance around here, but sheesh, not even Unca Cece could answer a question that vague.
Have fun and pop your corn however you want. But good grief, man, you’re about as subtle as a mallet across the front teeth.
Veb