(Referring of course to Kramer on the *Seinfeld *episode “The Contest.”)
My partner travels a lot on business. In fact he just left this morning for an 18-day trip. When he’s in town we have sex every single day, sometimes more than once. I have found that when he’s away I still need it just as much, and have to “take matters into my own hand” before even 24 hours are up.
So I’m wondering: For those of you who have sex on a regular basis, do you still need it just as regularly when you’re on your own, for whatever reason?
My wife is in Indonesia for the next three weeks, and I’ve been turning my crank more often than the amount of sex we usually have. Weird, I think about my wife and jerk off more frequently than if she was home. If that makes sense.
Only if there’s something major to occupy my time - if I have any free time, it’s gonna happen. Hell, even when I’m gettin’ some, I usually take things in hand regularly. Unless you’ve got a live-in, always-up-for-it partner, there are going to be times of drought.