I’m not talking about when you didn’t have a boy/girl friend or spouse, or how long you went without masturbating.
I mean, what’s the longest you ever went when you had a sex partner? And why did you go without? Fight? Period? Illness?
Six months, when I was still with my ex-boyfriend. We’d always had great sex, but in the last year of our relationship it tailed off until I could hardly bear to let him touch me. After six months of me sleeping on the edge of the bed and cringing if he so much as kissed me, I realised it was time to call it a day. I just didn’t love him anymore, and for me, if it ain’t going on emotionally, it ain’t going on physically either.
Probably about a week. My ex and I broke up several times and then got back together a few days later, so we went without sex during these times. Ironically, periods made her want to have sex more than usual. Don’t know if thats common.
The last two years of my marriage. Which I can’t believe now, looking back on it, because I’m the type of person who usually can’t go without for more than a day. But life with Mr. Hairtrigger just got to be less and less fun and sex just wasn’t worth the clean up afterward.
Thank god I’m back to my normal, overly-horny self! 
I regularly do without for months.
But my one true love lives on the other side of the country.
About 5 minutes.
When I regularly had it? I’m guessing a week or two maybe. Other times much much longer.
Does it count if you had women WILLING to be your sex partners, but didn’t think it was worth the hassle?
Maybe one week.
Even when I hated my ex, I still had sex with him. Terrible, but true.
about two-three weeks, and that was during the last 6 months of my marriage. Very similar to Jennyrosity’s situation, but the fight when I wouldn’t put out was worse than the actual putting out. When I finally left him I had to re-learn liking sex.
Damn, I can be competitive, but this is one contest I never wanted to win 
I love that this was posted by someone named Spooje. In school the guys always called their ejaculant spooge. :rolleyes: Maybe it’s not so funny. :smack:
Wow, lauramarlane! And I thought two months was alot, which is how long I went without before I broke up with my ex!
Four weeks. Two before the kid was born, and two after.
Tho the docs tell you to wait at least six weeks post-partum… and warn you to use condoms if you absolutely must…
Take heart, lauramarlane, I will take the lead. Same sort of situation. About 2 and a half years. We were never in sync, anyway, but too much built up anger leaves no room for desire.
on purpose? chose to NOT have sex and could have?
heh, you’re funny
Before marriage:
Hey, I’m a guy…we don’t do that. Hell, we’ll have sex with folks we don’t like or in some cases aren’t even attracted to. 
I’d have to say NEVER…not ever!
Since marriage:
Excluding the normal excuses ie: too damned tired, or sick, out of town, etc. other than a day here or two there perhaps a few every once in a while in extraordinary cases (hospital stays) But for all practical purposes, I’d say…never
When I had a willing partner who wasn’t tired or sick or anything? She had time for sex and was up for it if I was?
Seconds. Maybe.
Otherwise about a week.
2 years before my divorce.
The longest I’ve gone without sex when it was available? I guess it’d depend on how much clothing I was wearing.
I hear that now. I never heard it called that when I was growing up. I moved out to decadent California and I heard a guy use the term, which I thought refered to any unknown, greasy, possibly vile substance. It always cracked me when he said it. And when I had my first job that required me to think of a password that I would remember, that was all that popped into my head. And it’s been my ID for every system since. But it wasn’t till I got this board that I heard that it meant sperm. Go figure.