Thanks, LMM. But I’d disagree with you regardless of my specific industry. I hardly think my profession is “the one” where this “might actually be acceptable.” There are many professions where you have to give a certain impression to succeed and if you don’t play by the rules, you’re gonna lose. Period.
One example I can think of on a different scale is an accountant – if you walk in to an accountant and he’s using a freebie solar-powered 10-key credit-card size calculator from the pizza joint down the street, he’s not going to be getting your business. He might be a great accountant, but he doesn’t make you believe he can do his job. So maybe he has to go out and buy one of those $500 200-key HP Desktop Adding machines that does 4,000 functions, 3,990 of which he’ll never need. He doesn’t have an adding machine fetish, he’s just figured out that perceptions DO count…
An agent, as another example, has to make you believe that he knows, can interface with, and even intimidate/negotiate with studio heads, producers, as well as the stars he (hopefully) works for already. You’d also, probably, want to feel that he was a success in his job and you weren’t his first “test case.” So the accoutrements that might help foster that impression - Mercedes, fancy watch, etc. might well be key ingredients for him to succeed.
Like we’ve all said, if you feel that’s “beneath” you, by all means go shovel shit… But I think it’s ridiculous to be so condescending toward people who are simply operating according to the social standards of the area where they find themselves.
I haven’t asked what you do/have done for a living in your life, but my guess is that you have on many occasions done/bought/said/worn things according to the dictums of that profession’s accepted standard. Even if that means you ARE a shit shoveler, and you wear a NAPA auto-parts hat because everyone else in the SSWA (shit-shoveling workers of america) union does too. Just because your “required standard” doesn’t cost as much as mine doesn’t make mine bad and yours just fine.
Basically, perceptions DO count. If fostering the right impression as part (though only a small part) of what it takes to succeed is “beneath you,” you better look into getting your SSWA card up to date.