Um, never. 
One time in my live have I truly had ‘random hook-up’ sex.
Not explicitly against it, and I do go out a lot… just doesn’t seem to come my way (nor, I should add, do I explicitly go out looking for it either).
Um, never. 
One time in my live have I truly had ‘random hook-up’ sex.
Not explicitly against it, and I do go out a lot… just doesn’t seem to come my way (nor, I should add, do I explicitly go out looking for it either).
I’m a 27 year old guy and I’ve never had casual sex at all. I think I need to hang out with some of you guys.
For the record, it’s been a looooooooooooong time.
That has only happened to me once in the past 6 years. 
(But it happened at the start of this year, and then immediately afterwards I dated someone for a few months, so I’m hoping it was a sign that 2005 will be good for my sex life… :D)
Hell, I’m married and over the past 15 years there have been periods of time where I didn’t get any for several months … sort of hard to get any when mrAru was out making holes in the water in some unspecified classified ocean 
With someone else…
Never.
What is this “people” you speak of that would do such things on your behalf?
Do these “people” generally require compensation? Cause I can’t think of another group of “people” who are generally available for this type of activity.
Enjoy,
Steven
Good grief, have you people never heard of fuck buddies?
Sure, the “everyone has” bit was a stretch, but it’s hardly an uncommon arrangment.
To answer the OP–maybe a few times a year. Hooking up that way is always a craps shoot though, for every few guys willing to have a bit of fun and leave it at that there’s bound to be at least one who’s going to want to call you daily and follow you around for a month or two.
Don’t forget you need to multiply the gap for most of the guys by a factor of 3 (ie 2-3 weeks without sex is really 6-9).
I also have to think that pulling down a one night stand with a complete stranger is a relatively rare occurance for most people. Usually it requires that you be in that environment - a bar, nightclub, party - where people are looking to score immediately. For the most part, I’ve never heard of too many people meeting in a Barnes & Nobel and going back to his place for a quick one.
Basically, guys who get laid like every weekend probably have a lot of repeat business with the same girl/girls.
I’m a little jaded though. My college experience basically consisted of going to a school that was a complete sausage-fest. About 5:4 guys to girl ratio (which means about a 6:1 or higher practical ratio), 35:8 sorrority to fraternity ratio. So basically, every night is dude’s night out.
They must not have been invented yet while I needed one…that must be why I went sixteen years without getting laid.
Pssst… check out the “Self Help” section.
Isn’t progress grand?

Ditto. Except for the sixteen years part. [sub]It’s only been twelve years in my case.[/sub]
I never heard of ‘fuck buddies’ until this year, on this board. I don’t know anyone who would be interested in such a thing. Unfortunately.
That would be so cool, though! 
(You know, I could really use a “dork” smiley for myself… ;))
I’m fully cognizant of the “fuck buddies” concept, but don’t know anyone locally with whom I would be willing to have such an arrangement.
Jeez, that’s a long dry spell! 
Unfortunately, my experiences coincide.
Until last night, the dry spell was one year, seven months, and nine days… 
Actually if you want to get laid more, get a summer beach house with some friends. Cape Cod, Newport,IR, Jersey Shore, Fire Island,NY. It’s basically a hookup environment for adults. You take the weekend off from your real life and just go to bars and clubs trying to get some. Lots of fun.
I don’t do random sex. I require a full STI test and complete list of past partners before I will do anything beyond kissing, so I’ve never had casual sex and don’t plan on doing it. I also have very selective tastes in sexual partners which makes finding one a huge pain in the ass. Thankfully, an ex of mine and I have retained the sexual part of our relationship so I make booty calls occasionally (about once a week) and masturbate like a motherfuck the rest of the time.
I get why you’d want the STD check, but why the complete list of partners? If my guy had asked me to get tested, I would have agreed with no problem. But if he wanted a list, I’d have to say that was none of his damn business.