I was single from the age of 40 to 60, I could count the times on one hand that I went a week without sex. I admittedly worked at it a bit. I am not especially good looking, not a great lover, not a great talker and for most of those years was pretty broke due to alimony and child support. I am friendly, pretty open and have a medium sense of humor at best. I think I get laid a lot simply because I am not afraid of rejection or making the mistake of misreading a signal which happens now and then. The internet makes it especially easy if you put at least a little effort into it.
I swear I’m not making this up: I currently have a FB. She comes over on Wednesday night. We eat dinner and watch the latest episode of “Walking Dead” together.
So… Zombie sex for the win?
“1-2 times per month if you exclude regular hook-ups, booty calls and psuedo-girlfriends”
I’m interested in the differentiation between the three. Wouldn’t you think a “regular hook-up” would be a pseudo girl friend? And if a booty call is not “regular” wouldn’t it fall into the requested category?
Please explain what these three types are.
" I think I get laid a lot simply because I am not afraid of rejection or making the mistake of misreading a signal which happens now and then
IOW you’re a rapist??
When I was single, it happened at least weekly.
Huh? I think he means he just lets it slide off and finds another girl if it turns out the thing he thought was a signal wasn’t, and she was really rejecting him. Not that he keeps going when he’s not sure she really wants it.
As a member of the SD Hivemind I suppose you’re obligated to make that statement.. :dubious:
I interpret the spirit of the OP has how frequently you can generate “new business”. Regular hookups, booty calls, fuck buddies and girlfriends would fall under “repeat business”. ie banking a different girl every week vs banging the same girl every week.
“I interpret the spirit of the OP has how frequently you can generate “new business”.”
yeah, i got that - it’s why I didn’t ask about it.
I am still interested in the differences between “regular hook-ups, booty calls and pseudo girlfriends.”
Dude, my FB isn’t coming over today, this sucks. Yes, you win.
I’ll mistake girls who are “just trying to be nice” with girls who are romantically interested all the time. It can be daunting and a little depressing but it’s the only way to find the diamonds in the rough. I don’t get laid as often as I’d like. 
Never mind.
I’m not who you were asking but here’s how I’d distinguish the three:
Regular Hook-up: A person who you, on occasion, will have sex with. But it’s fairly regular. Might do something else other than just sex when you “hook up” with them. There may be some expectation for a regular occurrence.
Booty Call: Like a regular hook-up, but much less frequent. Definitely only meeting up for sex and that’s it. Spontaneous and out of the blue, but not unique, so it does happen from time to time but there’s no expectation for it and it’s not regular.
Pseudo Girlfriend: Someone who for all intents and purposes is your girlfriend, but doesn’t want to be attached or committed. Kind of like an open relationship with no romantic attachment. You definitely spend a lot of time together with this person and do more than just have sex, but she doesn’t “love” you.
I suppose it’s mostly just semantics, but I think drewtwo99 answered it pretty well. They aren’t really written in stone.
Look at my quote from 2005. Add in the intervening years. Actually, in a few months, it will be right at 19 years. Although I did have a woman proposition me a few weeks ago. But I’m not into paying for it, so I turned her down.
Hell, I’m not even SINGLE and it’s been years.
During my marriage I have had sex as little as 3 times in 1 year, but the last time I was between relationships I went 3.5 years without sex at all. So I guess it’s not so bad. I guess I see having sex rarely, with the potential of a few times a month if things go well, as preferable to the likely alternative of never having sex again.