There is a woman I have some classes with who lives in my apartment complex. I think we may hit it off if we could talk and socialize more (we only talk when we are in the laundromat at the same time). I also have some ‘buy one get one free’ deal coupons for a restaurant in town I want to use and I need someone to go with. So I want to ask this woman to join me. However its not a sexual thing. I know she has a boyfriend and I don’t think i’m sexually attracted to her anyway.
Should a person just be blunt and say that i’m not asking her out on a date, I just want to talk to her more since i don’t know her well enough? I fear if I don’t be upfront then she’ll think I am trying to date her (i know shes in a relationship, and she knows I know). I don’t want to come across as trying to seduce her out of her relationship. What shall I do to handle this meaningless ‘friends-esqe’ situation.