After 10 years of marriage and then divorce, I made the mistake of falling in love with a girl (14 years younger than me) who played around (i.e. lied about what she did in her time away from me). See, I wouldn’t have minded if she were open about it; then I’d feel I could have done the same. Anyway, this made me insecure and pessimistic about women (well, young women at least) and I’ve had to overcome anxious feelings in subsequent relationships.
Anyone had experience with women who play around and lie about it? Are there little things I should look for when I first meet a woman that might indicate whether she’d be a faithful person or not? Or maybe I need to stay away from younger women (20-26 years)? (I’m 38 years old, by the way, and look around 28). I think I’m still relatively naive when it comes to dating.
Also, I have a theory that young women are just as bad as guys now in playing around and using men for sex. Anyone agree or disagree? (My current girlfriend calls me her ‘bitch’).