First: this thread.
Second: I did not read a single post from it after my last post, because I had enough of that crap. Probably won’t read any of this either, I’ve no illusions of converting fanatics.
So: there was this waitress that was groped and she beat up the perv and called the cops. Everybody agreed that it served him right. I was one of those and still am. Then I mentioned her scant dress might have contributed and it might’ve not been the best choice in a place where groping problem was so rampant that they had to install cameras because of it.
Apparently that was blaming the victim and taking sides with the groper and even being a groper myself, and that I think women should wear burkhas if they didn’t want to be groped.
What kind of sick, twisted mind can bend “there are bad things out there, be careful” into “She asked for it and I would’ve groped her too.” ?
Everybody who is honest knows that the dress can sometimes contribute. Some perverts even take miniskirts as an invitation
And all you bastards who thought “GOTCHA! You said it IS an invitation”, I never said that and you know it, liars
Also when I mentioned it might’ve been a trap ( there was groping problem, they installed cameras for it ) I was blamed saying that those evil women are trapping innocent men. Another lie. I said I was fine with it if it was a trap. That kind of traps catch only bad guys, but not good ones, so why would anyone have a problem with it. Are cops also evil when they set up traps for criminals ?
Look closer, idiot, I did NOT say that gropers aren’t criminals. They are.
And when I passingly mentioned in a long post that I don’t expect women to wear burkhas or to stay indoors, this one idiot calmly accused that at least I’m thinking so ignoring everything else in that post.
That post was the first time I ever told anyone that as a youngster I was groped by an old guy ( in a wheelcair, no less ) and thanks for your responses it sure as hell was also the last. I have no doubt that you can easily convince yourselves that I lied, and hell, maybe I did. But it doesn’t really matter because there really is no way you can be certain and that means that you either shamed the victim or - if I lied - at least proved that you have potential to do so, which obviously it pretty much the same thing.
I’ve heard that pc-crowd is turning into religious zealots and with this I can see that it’s actually true with some people. The funny thing is that here in the SDMB you, without a shred of irony, are mocking trumpheads when they twist everything that their Messiah says or does so that it would seem positive. You are ready to go so far that even warning about a risk is forbidden, because it’s somehow blames the victim. You rather seem them groped than forewarned.
You are damn strawman-building hypocrites and enablers.