As a man, I can attest that no man I know treats a woman “better” because she’s attractive. Men are much more likely to lie to an attractive woman, to condescend to her, to completely ignore her good ideas and advice, to objectify her, and to pretty much disregard her feelings.
In exchange, she gets the sexual advances and you don’t. Even if an attractive woman is as smart and witty and insightful as you, she will not be taken as seriously as you and her opinions wont be considered as valuable as yours are. I won’t say you got the better end of the deal, because flirting and dating and are very important social interactions that you’re probably not experiencing enough of, but when it comes to interactions with men, you have advantages in some areas that a remarkably attractive woman can’t hope to compete in.
And, you’re probably disparaging your looks more than you should. Lots of men like wide hips. And they’re almost certainly talking about you the same way they talk about those other women when you’re not around, 'cuz that’s just how we talk about broads.