I go out to a club to drink and dance and have a good time and a beautiful woman latches onto me. Before I know it we’re back to my place and fireworks are going off… :rolleyes: :eek: :eek: :o
Then she tells me she’s got a boyfriend. She’s been living with him for four years and doesn’t love him, she thinks I’m the one, etc, etc. :smack:
This is the seventh girl in a row that’s not been single. Three were married, one of them had two kids as well.
What is it that attracts disenchanted wives/girlfriends to me? sigh
So, guys, don’t let your girlfriends out alone! They’re not to be trusted!
But seriously, I have to say your tale doesn’t seem all that usual. I think you just have a good eye for the ones who are ready and willing regardless of their relationship status.
Someone recently posted about the Erica Jong book ‘Fear of Flying’ referring to the turm Zipless Fuck. Seems to me you are that.
In any case, watch out for irrate boy friends and husbands.
Seriously, it happens. A friend of mine will meet a nice girl and then after a few weeks will discover some bizarre psychosis that the girl had kept hidden - and not normal little neuroses that folks have. I don’t know anybody with a record like his.
My favorite was the one who had just broken it off with her fiancee, because she needed to figure stuff out. Then he hooked up with her and then she fell in love with him - like serious stalker action. But then she got back with her fiancee. And then broke it off with him again, and started stalking my friend. It was pretty funny, actually, since we all warned him about hooking up with her.
It’s the girls more than its you. I do hope you understand that. You go to a club, where there’s women trying to get away from something and have some fun. That something being bad relations with their SO, be it a husband or boyfriend. HINT: ***They are there to get drunk and have a goood time. Not to meet thery’re future SO. So a shag at the end of the night, a night that you are used to having, is really not that unusual now is it. ***
Maybe it is the club you go to. It must seem like a place for unhappy attached women to go find some respite from a miserable relationship.
I agree with Phlosphr…
Oh and when I was dating… I wouldn’t shag on the first date. So here’s one woman you know that doesn’t! Of course I wouldn’t go to a club to get away from my husband either.
Well, things do work a bit differently here in the UK. We don’t seem to go out on dates like you do in the states. We meet up in clubs go back to each others house, shag, then decide if we want to go out and find out what the other person’s really like.
I wonder how rampant STD’s are in the UK v US? I know there is waaay more people here but comparatively speaking? I’d WAG it’s not that different. I work at a college and see and hear lot’s of things…LOL! Students have no idea what I hear sometimes:)
There is a term for this, it’s called REBOUND GUY. You are not “the one” you are “THE ONE FOR NOW” All it means is “I was planning on dumping this guy anyway and you look like someone I could latch onto long enough to get my shit together on my own” It ain’t pretty but it happens. Sometimes women are codependent. Sometimes they got dumped and just want a guy to have sex with to salve their emotions sometimes they want to spite the guy. But I’m betting rarely do these relationships last longer than say…six weeks even if you acquiesced and accomodated these women would they stick around. Am I right? You aren’t the one. You are just convenient. So it isn’t you. It is them . Nothing personal against you, it is the psychology of the female (some female) minds
:eek: :eek: :o 
sigh